Allison D.
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One of my most vivid memories of my mom disciplining me was her consistent message to me when I was being disciplined: "I love you, but that doesn''t mean I have to love the things you do."Date: 6/18/2009 4:26:17 PM
Author: Allisonfaye
It''s ironic but sometimes right after I punish either of my daughters, they tell me they love me. I hope it is because they know the energy it takes to discipline them is out of love.
And sometimes when I yell at Olivia, she says ''You don''t love me, Mommy?'' and no matter how mad at her I am, I always say I do love you, very much.
She always made it clear that she was upset with the undesired behavior. She stressed that when she had to discipline me, it upset her just as much as it upset me and that''s why she wanted me to behave.