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Bliss said:Hey Phoenix! Love love love your studs! Well, love your everything - all of your jewelry!
Not many jewelers are used to dealing with J colored stones, so that might explain the super off grading estimation! What size studs are these? Are they the 1 carat each studs or the super fantastic huge studs? I don't think AGS (which is one of, if not THE strictest) would grade an N colored stone a J. I do sympathize with you on the J studs, though. I have 2 pairs - one pair has J colored .78 each and they are super white and insane. No complaints. The ones that are a little over a carat each do show warmth to my eye, though. One is I and one is J colored. I am super pleased with them as they are killer cut and very fiery but I know now that I prefer blazing bright white stones and will never buy J again. I think anything over .75 each for me personally shows too much warmth and I love the icy bright white colors because they pop more.
Still, a J can be an unbelievably lovely stone. Are these the ones you recut? They are SPECTACULAR. I would embrace their warmth and be happy that at least a killer cut masks a lot of the color. If you bezeled them, they will show color more. I put mine in open settings and I see a huge visible difference in their color. Your studs are beautiful - both pairs and I would just try to put the jeweler's comments out of my mind and enjoy them for what they are. In the beginning I had an adverse reaction to the color but the more I accepted and loved them for what they are, the more I enjoyed them. You can't beat a killer cut, Phoenix! Expectations are also important because I saw so many amazing J stones here, I thought they were a sweet deal. Everyone says how icy white J stones are and I totally thought I would think so, too. Well, I don't! LOL...I'd rather people know the other side of it, too. J stones certainly are beautiful and white for what they are, but Js will be Js. There's a reason why you're paying J price and not an F price, which as you know is much higher.
I wouldn't waste the money on getting new certs. I would just love the studs you have because they are incredible... so they're not F stones. They're still beautiful, no? You loved them before the jeweler said those things so I would just put the comments out of mind! ETA: I see I missed that these are the super huge sparkly studs! Sorry I didn't read carefully - oh Phoenix, those studs are breathtaking. It would make sense in that size that the jeweler would be able to see the color better. Still, a J isn't an N. Maybe she was just unused to J color in that yummy size. Don't waste money and let doubt creep in over what one single person says! It could have been the lighting, her mood or bad color grading on her part that caused her to say that. It's just one person! Hundreds of PSers will tell you those studs are DIVINE!
Fly Girl said:I wouldn't waste another minute thinking about what your local jeweller said. If AGS said they are Js, then they are Js. If you want Fs, then you need to pay for Fs. You chose Js. It's your jeweller's problem if she can't tell Js from Ns, not yours.
arjunajane said:ditto flygirl and gypsy-to be honest I'm not even sure why you are letting this bother you There are a number of business and cultural driven motivations behind the jewellers comments, and none of them hold a candle to the reliable documentation you already have on your studs.
Gypsy said:I wouldn't waste another minute on it either.
Pheonix, honey... do you have any idea how many times I've been told that my diamond is a princess (asscher) at jewelry stores? Tell me, if she didn't pick the one thing you are insecure about, would you have even given her words credence? What if she told you they aren't round brilliants (when you know that they are) and that they are OECs? You'd just chuckle right?
Anything below F is YELLOW in Asia. It's black or white. And black is N.
How many times have people on this board gone into 'real' jewelers with stones from online retailers and heard crap?
Please, you are allowing this person too much importance. You really think some random jeweler with an agenda knows better than AGS GIA and an appraiser? Puh-lease.
Dreamer_D said:arjunajane said:ditto flygirl and gypsy-to be honest I'm not even sure why you are letting this bother you There are a number of business and cultural driven motivations behind the jewellers comments, and none of them hold a candle to the reliable documentation you already have on your studs.
Exactly.
Pheonix, I am a little surprised that you are even taking this seriously at all. You have been around Ps a long time and read many threads like this from newbies, surely you know the answer to your own question? I am sorry if this seems harsh, but unless you are questioning AGS as a lab, or are questioning that your stones match their cert, then I cannot see how there is even any kernal of legitimacy to your concerns.
natyLad said:I'm trying to find the pics of those studs and i can't Please Phoenix post a picture...or else i'll go nuts
Phoenix said:What I might do though, since GIA is opening a new certing facility (not sure what you actually call it) in Hong Kong whereby you can leave your stones with them for just a couple of days, I may actually go and have them re-graded by GIA. Since I've been meaning to have my 3ct re-graded (which I still haven't done yet, since I didn't want to send my stone all the way across to the US and back), I might as well use this opportunity to have the studs re-graded too. I remember someone else telling me that AGS is softer than GIA and since I don't know that this is actually the case, this might be my chance to find out.
Phoenix said:I do wonder on the other hand if people here are so conditioned to seeing D, E, F stones that they can't tell with accuracy the colour grading of anything below F.
natyLad said:Phoenix, i just saw your studs and they are truly gorgeous. In fact, they are the most beautiful studs i've ever seen in my life. Now i can't express an opinion on the color, because from my personal experience i have come to the conclusion that pictures rarely capture the true color of diamonds. In the photos that you posted your diamonds definitely look many grades whiter than N color. I understand that you're worried that the AGS grading was softer than it should, but i honestly don't think that they could ever be FOUR grades off...seriously....Which means that your jeweller doesn't know what she's talking about and she just threw an "N" to you, maybe without really knowing how does an N color diamond look in that size.
Honestly, i am very upset because just yesterday i had a somehow similar incident. I passed by a local jeweller who was making a citrine ring for my mother and he was asking about my engagement ring. I proudly told him that it is an E color, VVS2 clarity, triple ex, hearts and arrows diamond, which is certified by GIA and has two laser inscriptions on the girdle, the GIA number and the H&A inscription. To make the long story short he asked if he could check it out and after he observed it for a while, he said that there's no inscription on the girdle and most probably the stone that was sold to me is not the one stated in the GIA cert, or else it was switched at some point (and that was a possibility, because some time ago the jeweller who sold me the ring took it back in order to set it lower). Needless to say that i experienced a panic attack and instead of going to my office i went straight to an appraiser, in order to have my diamond checked and appraised. Now let me tell you that i had really started having doubts about my stone because of the things that he told me and while i was waiting for the appraiser to ask me in, i was trembling and felt like crying (which wasn't very good since i'm pregnant right now and i shouldn't be getting so upset...).The appraiser took a look at my ring and he said that he can definitely see both the number inscription (a part of it was hidden under a prong) and the H&A inscription. He also confirmed the GIA specs and finally, when he gave it back to me he said: "This is a gorgeous stone, you should be very proud of it"
So that jeweller's ignorance, stupidity - call it as you wish - cost me a lot of time and money, not to mention i almost had a heart attack.....Are you getting my point here?
jgny said:Phoenix - those studs are GORGEOUS. And I agree - they look quite white from your pics. Also when you compare against your F there is no way I would call those an N. I don't know what your jeweler's reasons are for making a comment like that, but I know for sure it's a self serving comment. If it makes you feel better get them GIA graded, but remember you will have to unmount them - they only grade loose stones.
decodelighted said:If you live in a country where most people think "J" color is "N" color ... can you be happy with "J" studs? I'm not saying that's the fact. (I honestly think the jeweler was trying to exaggerate the "yellow" issue, playing on your insecurities to get you to buy his/her product instead).
Before you go through the trouble & expense of further grading to confirm the grade -- why not go to an independent appraiser ... or, heck, into any other jewelry store. Sure, they may try to hoodwink you too -- but you could start forming a consensus. If it turns out in your country the GENERAL public just see anything that's not "F" as "yellow N" -- then it might legitimately affect what you want to *own*. IF you're worried about what other people think.
I TRULY doubt you paid for more/less than what you received. This is more about perception. (And an opportunistc, less-than-honest/clueful jeweler IMHO.)
ETA: A *fun* idea .... tell your local jeweler you're looking for a pair JUST LIKE YOURS for a gift. Can he bring in some "N"s for you? Then YOU can compare ... and, heck, if you can pick up some just like yours at "N" prices -- DO IT!
Phoenix said:Hmmm...I was quite happy with my J studs. I mean of course I wanted whiter ones. But within the budget constraint, I had the size I wanted and a super-ideal cut, that was plenty enough for me...until this stupid person started putting doubts in my mind.