nessvan12
Shiny_Rock
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- May 15, 2007
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Well, now that my brother is married, the inevitable question came up among my family..."Why hasn''t your BF propped the big question yet?" For those that don''t know, my brother & SIL were together 2 years total, (engaged for 4 mos.) & my BF and & will be celebrating 7 yrs in a couple weeks. So they were all surprised that he got engaged/married before me.
I know the family means well, but they are getting upset! Wondering why he won''t commit & why he doesn''t know after 7 yrs that I''m the one. I hate having to defend my relationship and BF especially since I tend to agree with them.
I know they are looking out for me and don''t want to see me hurt but they were so rough. Saying that maybe my BF is just passing the time with me and that if he wanted to marry me, he would have at least asked by now. It''s sooo frustrating! My dad is the main one. I''ve always been a daddy''s girl, and I know he is worried that BF won''t settle down and I''ll be hurt. I don''t know what else to say. I am tired of defending and frankly at times, I don''t want to defend anymore cause I, myself think this is getting ridiculous. People seem to really gang up when others are celebrating milestones, ie. my brother''s wedding & engagement, my other brother''s wedding & the birth of his twin girls.
Family is great, but I''m just ready for them all to go back home and get out of my business!
OK....venting is over. Sorry, had to get it out. Do any of you deal with this from family? How do you handle it.
I know the family means well, but they are getting upset! Wondering why he won''t commit & why he doesn''t know after 7 yrs that I''m the one. I hate having to defend my relationship and BF especially since I tend to agree with them.
Family is great, but I''m just ready for them all to go back home and get out of my business!
OK....venting is over. Sorry, had to get it out. Do any of you deal with this from family? How do you handle it.