fieryred33143
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Boss sent me an email (yes while on mat leave) with our audit plan for the year. I am scheduled to go “country hopping” in November when DD will be a little over 4 months. The trip is scheduled for 2 weeks but I know I can get it done in just one.
My boss pretty much sent over the hotel and flight info but at the end he asked “will you be able to?”
Here are my options:
1. DD will be watched by MIL during the day. I can leave her here with MIL during the day and FI at night.
2. Leave her with MIL all week to sleep over.
3. Have my mom either stay in my home for a week or take my daughter to her house for a week
4. Pay for my mom and DD to go traveling with me
5. Just say no
Here are my thoughts on each:
Of options 1-3, I would feel 1,000 times more comfortable if my mom were taking care of DD. MIL is ok to take care of her during the day but I wouldn’t want DD sleeping there overnight for that long of a period. I honestly don’t feel like MIL can handle her. As for FI, he’s great with DD but when he sleeps, he sleeps. Nothing wakes him up. DD has been crying before while I’m in the shower and he’s in the bedroom with her snoring away. So that would worry me. And my mom is just wonderful with her.
Option 4 would be ideal but super expensive. The last time I went on a trip like this, it cost $10k in flight fees. Of course that was business class but I wouldn’t have my mom sitting in economy while I’m in business. And I *think* infants have to pay for international flights but not sure.
Option 5 is what I really want to do but something I’m really nervous about. I want to be considered for a management position and while I know they’ll understand, it’s corporate America and saying no stays in their minds for a long time.
Any opinions, advice, other suggestions? Please keep in mind that my goal is to breastfeed for at least six months and I’m hoping to still be bfing at this point.