saltymuffin
Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Aug 24, 2007
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- 225
I really don''t understand saying that these parents are selfish. How can two people who put so much time and devotion into their family possibly be described as selfish? This woman is willing to risk even her health and body for her children - that isn''t selfish. I agree that there is something weird and even a bit cult-like about this family. But I really don''t think they can be described as selfish. Selfish to me is a childless couple living in a 2000 sq ft house in the suburbs with two SUVs and all the latest tech toys and shiny gadgets, not a family of 19 living a very basic lifestyle.
I also question the environmental arguement, on a per person basis, this family uses far less resources than the average American.
My biggest problem with the family is probably the homeschooling. As has been stated, homeschooling 17 people, all of different ages isn''t going to be that efficient. Learning to socialise with other children who do not have the same beleifs and lifestyle is important, and it seems these kids miss out on that.
Having to raise younger siblings is a fact of life for kids in big families. Being lonely is a fact of life for only children. I don''t see how we can judge one way or another.
I don''t think they are selfish or an environmental disaster, and I applaud them for their stable financial situation, but there is something odd about them. The multiple TV stunts and the homes chooling are where it begins to seem like tele-valgelism or cult-like to me.
I also question the environmental arguement, on a per person basis, this family uses far less resources than the average American.
My biggest problem with the family is probably the homeschooling. As has been stated, homeschooling 17 people, all of different ages isn''t going to be that efficient. Learning to socialise with other children who do not have the same beleifs and lifestyle is important, and it seems these kids miss out on that.
Having to raise younger siblings is a fact of life for kids in big families. Being lonely is a fact of life for only children. I don''t see how we can judge one way or another.
I don''t think they are selfish or an environmental disaster, and I applaud them for their stable financial situation, but there is something odd about them. The multiple TV stunts and the homes chooling are where it begins to seem like tele-valgelism or cult-like to me.