Tacori E-ring
Super_Ideal_Rock
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Shimmer, denial is a powerful tool. His mom is not ready, and may never be ready, to be aware of her son''s disease. That is very sad. Luckily it is NOT your problem. I would invite a supportive friend to go with you on the cruise. Why deny yourself some relaxation? Sounds like your DH won''t care so life goes on. Acceptance is a form of grief. Clearly this is not how you imagined your marriage/life but I promise you there is so much opportunity out of our struggles. This WILL change your life but you are in control if it is going to knock you down and turn you into a victim or strengthen you and make you a fighter. Life, unfortunately, does not have a dress rehearsal. It is full of pain. Pain is normal but suffering is optional. Best of luck.