PussInBoots
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PussInBoots|1367803495|3440997 said:ariel144 and Niel - I showed her your suggestions, but she's not really a big fan of the three-stone look. Also, Niel, I like your idea about just not telling her that they're the final candidates. I was talking it over with one of my friends, and she had a similar thought - that I show the pictures to one of my SO's friends, then have that friend show it to my SO under the pretense of that they're just of some random internet diamond![]()
Good news, though: I've convinced her to go to GOG in person, so she's going to visit in two weeks from now. I'm going to ask the staff to show her some pears, some H&A rounds, some AVRs, and maybe even some AVCs. If the final candidate pears are in by that time, then she'll get to see them, otherwise I'll either pick without her or ask that she return for another visit
Thanks for the help! I'll share what GOG shows me as the stones come in, but Jon is currently on vacation, so it may be a few extra days.
PussInBoots|1368306554|3445049 said:Niel - I don't think she's really into the bezel setting. She's actually given me a fair amount of information about what kind of setting she's interested in (similar to the Tacoris I linked to earlier in the thread). I'd definitely be interested in getting some feedback, but right now I'm mainly focused on trying to nail down the diamond first
ariel144 - oh OK I think my SO likes them, too! They seem a bit hard to find, though, so hopefully that eBay one works out. We'll know a week from today!
diamondseeker2006|1368640566|3447474 said:She is going to be in FAR better shape once she makes the GOG visit. Being able to compare pears with better performers such as rb's, AVR's and AVC's, she will be making an INFORMED decision. I think this is SO important!
diamondseeker2006|1368640566|3447474 said:She is going to be in FAR better shape once she makes the GOG visit. Being able to compare pears with better performers such as rb's, AVR's and AVC's, she will be making an INFORMED decision. I think this is SO important!
PussInBoots said:Hello all,
A few updates: My girlfriend has now been to GOG twice. The first time she went, it was before Jonathan had sourced pears for her to look at, so she compared various other shapes and walked away loving the AVR. After a week, she went back, and this time looked at AVRs in comparison to the pears that Jonathan had brought in. She spent a good chunk of time thinking it over, and eventually decided that, even though she thinks that the AVR offers truly amazing light performance, she really just prefers the way the pear looks on her finger.
Of the pears that Jonathan showed my SO, one stood out to her and I've attached various pictures she took of it on her finger, mostly cropped to show as much diamond as possible. Some are alongside the AVR she had been considering - it's the one you suggested, Niel! I've also attached a picture taken by GOG and the stone's ASET. My SO told me that she'd be happy if I chose this diamond, but that she wasn't completely overwhelmed and could also be happy with another choice. So basically, I'm at the point now where I'm thinking about whether I should just take the plunge with this one, or ask Jonathan to try to find me some other options.
Does the pear shown in the pictures seem like a good choice? I thought it looked fine on her finger, but I didn't think that the ASET looked spectacular (although it could just be that I don't really know what to expect from pear ASETs). I also thought that the inclusion near the center of the diamond seemed pretty noticeable, but my SO didn't mention it so maybe it's not very visible in person. Overall, I'm leaning somewhat toward making the purchase because my SO is pretty insistent that I make all the decisions on my own from now on, and I'd rather get a stone she said she likes than risk getting one she hasn't seen. The pear is a 2.02 G SI1, ~1.6 l/w ratio, 59.9% depth, and a 57.8% or a 61.8% table depending on whether you're looking at the GIA cert or the Helium scan (not sure why these are so different).
Sorry for the long post, and thanks so much to everyone for all the help you've been giving me - I really, really appreciate it. As an aside, the setting shown in the pictures is probably the one I'll end up using (either that or I'll go custom). I've also attached a picture from Tacori of how that setting would look with a pear, but I'd be getting it in platinum or possibly white gold, not yellow gold.
Thanks!!
PussInBoots|1369690977|3454657 said:OK I just sent an e-mail to Jon asking whether he thinks the inclusion is visible to the naked eye, since the only two pictures where it seems to be apparent are ones that are really close up to the stone. He had previously said he'd only be able to hold the stone for a few days, but I also asked whether he might be able to hold it for a little longer if he thinks it's worth exploring other options.
Niel - I really like the way the setting looks with the pear in your mock-up - it's much prettier than Tacori's image with the yellow gold! Also that photo is just a still shot; Jon didn't make me a video, presumably because my SO went to see the stone in person, and I probably won't ask for a video for that very reason (although I may change my mind when I get ready to pull the trigger).
PussInBoots|1369777284|3455280 said:OK I've just gotten word back from Jon - he said that the inclusion is invisible to the naked eye. Maybe we're just seeing it in the pictures because we're looking for it? I think I'm just going to go ahead and take the plunge. In the worst case scenario, when he ships it to me, I can decide whether I think the inclusion is actually invisible and, if so, return it within ten days.
Also, CharmyPoo - I didn't give Jon the link to the eBay pear, but I did specifically ask him if he thought he could find a pear with chunkier faceting (this was after my SO said she loved the AVR), and he told me he couldn't.
And Niel - I showed my SO the photoshop job you did on the pear/setting and she really loved it! She said it looked like you had done a great job and she particularly enjoyed that you added the five prongs![]()
Yay I'm so excited!![]()