I recommend ensuring there is a meeting of the minds from the get-go, and reduce it to a signed writing as a back-up. This is for your protection and for the protection of your daughter's family.
Topics to cover include: date of move-in and date of move-out, household expenses, household chores, childcare ...
Be sure there is an agreed-upon and defined move-out date (i.e., June 30, 2020, rather than "as soon as they save up XXX dollars"). If the move-out date approaches, you can always agree and write up a new document reflecting the extended move-out date.
I agree with all of you.i am anxious about how my quiet house will become hectic. I work full time and don’t prepare dinner. My husband cooks for both of us at times. Laundry can also be a problem, as I see how she doesn’t fold clothes right away. Messiness is also on my mind. My daughter was spoiled living here. She was sick as a child, so we catered to her every need.
I don’t want to be the built in babysitter. When I get home from work, I want to relax and lie down. I love my grandson to pieces, but he is a handful, and I can’t be expected to watch the cutie every second.
I agree with all of you.i am anxious about how my quiet house will become hectic. I work full time and don’t prepare dinner. My husband cooks for both of us at times. Laundry can also be a problem, as I see how she doesn’t fold clothes right away. Messiness is also on my mind. My daughter was spoiled living here. She was sick as a child, so we catered to her every need.
I don’t want to be the built in babysitter. When I get home from work, I want to relax and lie down. I love my grandson to pieces, but he is a handful, and I can’t be expected to watch the cutie every second.
I agree with all of you.i am anxious about how my quiet house will become hectic. I work full time and don’t prepare dinner. My husband cooks for both of us at times. Laundry can also be a problem, as I see how she doesn’t fold clothes right away. Messiness is also on my mind. My daughter was spoiled living here. She was sick as a child, so we catered to her every need.
I don’t want to be the built in babysitter. When I get home from work, I want to relax and lie down. I love my grandson to pieces, but he is a handful, and I can’t be expected to watch the cutie every second.
@kenny Indian families are the same way.
I don't mean to worry you further but to say that " a leopard doesn't change its spots." Whatever personality your child had in their youth is unlikely to have changed greatly in their adulthood.