quietlysw
Rough_Rock
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Re: Just proposed. I think I screwed up with my ring choice
I agree Kenny that she feels guilty about the part that she played - but I do not believe she deserves to feel that way about what transpired.
She tried to "figure out" what she did wrong. And came to the only conclusion that she let the kiss "linger", even though she pushed him away and quickly left with her friends. I don't believe that this is a game of seconds, or that one second more warrants intent to cheat, and one second less means an innocent party.
That sounds like a stressed woman rationalising someone else's actions and blaming themselves.
ringfailure|1415828111|3782220 said:She claims that she didn't kiss him back and that she pushed him away and quickly left with her friends. She said that she has been replaying the kiss in her mind over and over to figure out if she did something wrong and she wanted to admit to me that she let the kiss linger for a second too long and that it has been eating her up in side.
I agree Kenny that she feels guilty about the part that she played - but I do not believe she deserves to feel that way about what transpired.
She tried to "figure out" what she did wrong. And came to the only conclusion that she let the kiss "linger", even though she pushed him away and quickly left with her friends. I don't believe that this is a game of seconds, or that one second more warrants intent to cheat, and one second less means an innocent party.
That sounds like a stressed woman rationalising someone else's actions and blaming themselves.