i had this happen to me on Etsy. A vendor sold what she advertised as a vintage tourmaline ring. It turned out to be a newly made glass filled ruby. It was extremely obvious when I received the ring! I paid five times what it was worth. I immediately told the vendor the item was not as advertised. The vendor refused to refund the non returnable item, which I bought on the basis of her description. Opening a Dispute with Etsy was humiliating, they sided with her and closed the case even when I showed the ruby flourescing madly and providing scientific paper saying tourmalines don’t flouresce bright pink, ever. I then went to my credit card company and they refunded me the price.
The difference is that hypersparkle immediately offered to accept a return and sent a prepaid label. Then waited 17 days. Customer said nothing like hey I’m busy can you extend the return period, etc. Then seller decided something seemed off and refused the return. Am I missing something? It would seem that hypersparkle might be gracious and accept the return still, even now, but sometimes items are altered, etc. That would be my concern as a vendor, too, lost ability to sell in-transit inventory and possibility of tampered item. I’d still not create a problem, I’d still be gracious and accept the return. I’m not sure what caused Hypersparkle to rant but perhaps it was the insinuation that she is an unreasonable vendor, when in actuality, her actions seem more than reasonable to me as a buyer, especially if her customary policy is no returns at all.
I disagree. Your situation is vastly different, as yours was a misrepresentation. This is selling of counterfeit items, which is a crime.
As a customer, I expect a 30 day return if I buy from a business. There's a reason why the European consumer laws and most of the US too allows for 30 days. My appraiser needs 2 weeks to inspect the item and get back to me, so I'd need 30 days. Did the seller specify that the buyer agreed to the 17 day period? Just sending a label expiring in 17 days is not a notice.
Also, the loss of inventory and delays are expected and planned for. There's a reason why a sound business plan involves insurance, legal rules, and risk management. My gut feeling is that a lot of these IG businesses are run without any of that, and one can't simply expect to flip something at 3, 4 times the cost without incurring any risk or liability. That would be akin to a ponzi scheme.