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Hi Rich ~Date: 7/25/2006 10:37:16 PM
Author: Richard Sherwood
I guess I''m biased, but personally I think it''s crazy to rely on a non-independent versus an independent appraisal, no matter who the source is.
Especially if you''re talking big money.
It''s ok to be biased!
RE: your comment on big money. Well, to me big money might be someone else''s small money. This is where I think Aljdewey''s post comes in and one needs to think to themselves, could I easily replace this out of pocket.
For myself, I am one of the very few ladies at work who had this conversation at lunch who could not easily replace my diamond, or setting, or wedding bands ... It would take much time due to other financial priorities at this time, so ... for hubby it was clear on what to do with my ring/set.
However, it wasn''t clear to a bunch of ladies sitting at a lunch table as to what they should do, or need to do, at this given point in their lives.
There were two ladies who have 2 ct''ish center stones that stated that they didn''t have their diamond rings insured, and they were not appraised, They just took the jewelers word and that was it. One lady''s was from the late 70''s and the other was from the mid 80''s. They both said that if anything happened to this diamond, they would just replace it with another. They were quite matter of fact about it all. They are well established, and can afford many luxeries that most of us can not.
Three ladies who have .99ct, 1.27, & 1.74 ct stated that their diamond rings were insured, but didn''t now what they were insured for. All three had I.A.''s done, and submitted the paper work to insurance company, but when they got home and looked at their policy''s ... all were replacement value, and their policy didn''t mention anything specifically about their diamond. I asked these 3 ladies what would happen if they had to make a claim, could they replace with like kind, & would they be ok with that or would they be under insured, or what? Two stated that they would be ok with a similar replacement (No H&A), as long as it sparkled, and the third (1.74) stated no way! She said that she would not be happy unless it was a H&A with same parameters and she is now looking at switching or changing her policy to cover her needs and to also have her I.A. report binded to her policy, in case anything should ever happen.
One lady had a JM policy, she also had her 1.16 appraised independently, and she stated that her policy was up to date, and that her policy refers to being linked to her I.A.
Of Course the "Lunch Lady" doesn''t know much, other than she has a 1.36 HOF and eveyone else didn''t go her route (Bought at her mall store), her way (hubby surprised her) and the rest of us are all gonna burn in he!!
And lastly, me ... .72ct, the smallest of them all ... but I am imagining that it will definately out sparkle most. So, brilliant things might come in small packages!
I think there are many reasons to get an I.A. done, however, everyone might not agree, or be in the same position as me, and that''s ok. Choice is a wonderful freedom to have. I know that this particular topic has made others (at lunch) aware of things that maybe they weren''t aware of previously.
Thanks to all the contributions and have a wonderful day to all!