jaysonsmom
Ideal_Rock
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My heart aches to hear of your loss....take care of yourself PB!
... it takes a lot out of me and I'm actually an introvert. I also don't let a lot of people in, but it can be easier over the Internet shielded behind a screen name
While I can appear social, it takes a lot out of me and I'm actually an introvert. I also don't let a lot of people in, but it can be easier over the Internet shielded behind a screen name. My husband and I did everything together. Even when we were just friends, he was the one to drop everything and be there for me. I miss my other half. I am heart broken
I felt a bit of jealousy when my SIL's friend (her roommate in college and in their first apartment in the real world) drove down to be with her.
While I can appear social, it takes a lot out of me and I'm actually an introvert. I also don't let a lot of people in, but it can be easier over the Internet shielded behind a screen name. My husband and I did everything together. Even when we were just friends, he was the one to drop everything and be there for me. I miss my other half. I am heart broken.
I felt a bit of jealousy when my SIL's friend (her roommate in college and in their first apartment in the real world) drove down to be with her.
While I can appear social, it takes a lot out of me and I'm actually an introvert. I also don't let a lot of people in, but it can be easier over the Internet shielded behind a screen name. My husband and I did everything together. Even when we were just friends, he was the one to drop everything and be there for me. I miss my other half. I am heart broken.
While I can appear social, it takes a lot out of me and I'm actually an introvert. I also don't let a lot of people in, but it can be easier over the Internet shielded behind a screen name. My husband and I did everything together. Even when we were just friends, he was the one to drop everything and be there for me. I miss my other half. I am heart broken.
Dear @siamese3 , do we share a brain? Because what you and pinto said is exactly how I feel. Word for word.Pinto, I could have written the first part of this post, word for word. I am so sorry you have had this happen. Life can really suck sometimes. My DH is the first person in the world who "really gets me" and I have lived in a state of anxiety since we have been married about what life would be like without him. I can't know what you are feeling, or going through, but I know that it must be overwhelmingly surreal. Like so many others, I am so saddened that I can't do more for you. I hope that it gives you some comfort to know how many here care about you.
Well, the hug/love one I thought I could use isn't available so there's these: You're damn right that she doesn't need to please anyone, now or ever, but especially not now.I love you, ame. I hope that PB listens to you and rainwood and allows her own feisty spirit to rule the day. It isn't her job to please anyone when she has just lost her husband!!!
I remember when my husband was in the ICU a few years back and we were not sure if he would make it. I was finally asleep, at my parents house, and my mom came in to see if I was asleep finally, at maybe 6am (I probably needed to be awake anyway) and she was like 3 inches from my face and I about had a heart attack when I felt someone was in my face, then she's like "oh good I think you're awake." She almost got punched.I went to bed after 1 and woke up to my mother calling me at 730 asking if I'm sleeping lol. That seemed to open the floodgates to more calls. I finally got to take a nap at 130 and will head over to my in laws for a little family time.
It absolutely is. To be fair, I'd be pretty damn annoyed if someone woke me up to ask me if I was asleep. I'd be like "do you need me to leave my phone on the charger and connected to you on facetime all night or something? Jesus." But then, I have no patience, and in this case, I would probably be the least patient version of myself. Of course I am also a big baby and hate staying in my house alone, so I'd be at my parents house already anyway. For good, most likely. (did I mention I am a big baby who is scared of her house?)Perhaps moreso than any other time in your life, this is your time.
Believe it or not, I am like this as well. I know that doesn't seem likely being as much of a loudmouth smartass, but I generally trust NO ONE.I felt a bit of jealousy when my SIL's friend (her roommate in college and in their first apartment in the real world) drove down to be with her.
While I can appear social, it takes a lot out of me and I'm actually an introvert. I also don't let a lot of people in, but it can be easier over the Internet shielded behind a screen name. My husband and I did everything together. Even when we were just friends, he was the one to drop everything and be there for me. I miss my other half. I am heart broken.
I guess that means you outside of a reasonable driving distance, but if I was, I would be that weird internet freak that shows up with Gooey Butter Cake and Red Hot Riplets in hand who you've seen put makeup on and go through her trash. Calories and carbs don't count, right? But yknow, they ship easily I just PMd you on Insta this same message btw.Oh Pinto, I am so sorry. Is no one staying with you? I really hope that you have people to keep you company and just be there for support.
I lived in CT up until 1 year ago. I wish I were still there for no other reason than to come give you a big hug and sit with you eating/crying/in silence/whatever you need. There are just no words.
My BIL came by impromptu and just in time. Bad dehydration (dark urine), and pounding heart probably exacerbated by the cough medicine I've been taking. After some initial hydration I'm down from heart rate of 110 to 90 something. I am having a hard time eating. Had half a croissant around 130. Just having a quarter of a bagel now with butter.