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Ooo did you notice they say "cat" across the tongue! I may need a pair
Ooo did you notice they say "cat" across the tongue! I may need a pair
Sadly I'm not joking about the drugs. One friend's baby daddy OD'd in a motel room and someone found him 3 days later. She then went on to date another drug addict. I hear she's not eating again and losing a lot of weight and hangs with colleagues that live similarly. She neglects her children. My other friend ... she loves coke. .I'm sorry Pinto. Job hunting stinks even when you are in a good place. I know something will come up for you. Dont give up!
Do they have job fairs up there?
I love monarch's idea about air bnb. You would be a great host! You could tell everyone one where to go for fun and good eats. That
might be a way to get you through until something solid shows up.
Drugs...I know you are probably joking PB but just dont go there. So many people losing their lives to opioids. Makes me just want to cry for
all the moms out there that have lost their kids/adult kids to drugs. Just heartbreaking.
Yeah I have been actively declining and dodging. I just stay under the radar as best as I can. Some of my former bosses live within 15 minutes of me and their kids are just as absurd. It's touchy so I keep a low profile around town.Pinto, I almost commented before about the friends doing drugs but decided on a more subtle approach of suggesting you 'expand your social network'.
I have strong views on the behaviour you describe above, so will try to choose my words carefully, but seriously ... what the hell!?!?! Who will protect those children? What good comes out of you being with people doing drugs?
Its seems like a hopeless environment (unless any of them are seeking help), and I'd like to see you in a positive, hopeful, constructive environment -- not hanging out with people involved in self-destructive behaviours.
You have too much potential and are too smart to be with that group.
I hang with PB! Not a drug user! We recently went on a nice Ikea/mall walk/chick fil A trip
I do. Cat stuff lol. I'm waiting for the spay neuter clinic to announce the schedule. It's great helping ferals by chopping balls. (I don't get to chop balls I clean traps and move them to the receiving area).What about volunteering, taking classes, etc.?
I actually go out a lot more than my peers. I talk to everyone so I'm a familiar... Even the lady that sugars my hoo ha and brows has my number and knows that I want to do a group thing. (Not a group hoo ha thing, not that there's anything wrong with that...).
I can walk into a restaurant or store and get greeted like an old friend. I found out later that a lady that I often shop from at Nordstrom came to the funeral.
I'm out there socially but I don't have intimacy. Some of my warmest memories are of my freshman year. People on my floor and esp in my suite would often jump into my bed to snuggle me.
Are you suggesting we have a group hoo ha sugar party? What party games could you play at such an event?