TravelingGal
Super_Ideal_Rock
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Obviously those of us who have kids can answer with the understanding that they wouldn''t trade their little ones for anything. But I''m curious!
I don''t think I was shy when I was preggo about saying I wanted a daughter. I would have been happy with either, but a daughter definitely edged out a son.
I was relieved that TGuy''s family did not care about continuing on the family line like many asian families do. That took the pressure off. I would have liked a son for him, but if I ever thought about having a kid, it was a girl. Probably because I love my mom so much and I think a daughter''s affection is just different. I also receive affection from my mother better than my brother does, so I wanted a girl because of that too.
I do have nightmares about those scary teenage years, but that could apply to boys or girls. But there''s no denying that when they cut me open, took her out and said "Girl," I was giddy even through the haze of drugs. I just kept saying, "I have a daughter, I have a daughter!"
Plus I hate shopping...so if anything is going to make me do it, cute girl''s clothes and shoes have a fighting chance!
BTW, I don''t think just because we''re women, automatically we want girls. A good majority of my gal friends preferred a boy and one of them decided to stop at having one son, she was so petrified at the thought of having a daughter. She did NOT want to be a girl mommy for anything.
I don''t think I was shy when I was preggo about saying I wanted a daughter. I would have been happy with either, but a daughter definitely edged out a son.
I was relieved that TGuy''s family did not care about continuing on the family line like many asian families do. That took the pressure off. I would have liked a son for him, but if I ever thought about having a kid, it was a girl. Probably because I love my mom so much and I think a daughter''s affection is just different. I also receive affection from my mother better than my brother does, so I wanted a girl because of that too.
I do have nightmares about those scary teenage years, but that could apply to boys or girls. But there''s no denying that when they cut me open, took her out and said "Girl," I was giddy even through the haze of drugs. I just kept saying, "I have a daughter, I have a daughter!"
Plus I hate shopping...so if anything is going to make me do it, cute girl''s clothes and shoes have a fighting chance!
BTW, I don''t think just because we''re women, automatically we want girls. A good majority of my gal friends preferred a boy and one of them decided to stop at having one son, she was so petrified at the thought of having a daughter. She did NOT want to be a girl mommy for anything.