Ellen
Super_Ideal_Rock
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When we bought our first set (24 years ago), we knew NOTHING about diamonds, and, eneded up with a less than stellar set, to say the least. So this time, history is not going to repeat itself. I found this board right after xmas, and have read everything I can get my hands on.
So, we ventured out to the big city to visit a jeweler a friend recommended. Below is my experience.
The business is run by dad and son. Dad waits on us. He has several small, closed ring boxes on his desk. He asked me what I''m interested in. I tell him I don''t want round, or most other fancies. I want a square stone with clipped corners, (now I catch a different look on his face) or octagonal shaped.
He now gets out a long box with many small envelopes that have different diamonds in them. He also says I just cut out a lot of what he has. He pulls out a .51 square. I ask for bigger. He pulls out a 1.51 Radiant, SI1. Mr. finally has to ask for the loupe, which he is given. It''s dirty and scratched.
The diamond has a lot of inclusions, and doesn''t really do anything, like, sparkle as a diamond should. In the meantime I''m trying to tell him all the differents shapes I''ve seen, and would likew to see. Although a couple have been patented and I realize he can''t show me those. (but I''m thinking he could pull out generic cut possibly)
At this point, the mood is beginning to change a tad. I can tell, while he''s being very nice, he''s also beginning to get frustrated. He then asks what kind of setting I''m wanting, and that it''s probably going to be very difficult to get one with what I''m looking for. At this point, I''m thinking WTH? I tell him the two I''m considering (Cathedral or Trellis), and a total look of confusion washes over him. He then turns to get a chart out, and smiles. I kiddingly say, you''re laughing at me. He says, No, I''m not laughing at you, you''re just making this difficult because you''re too educated. I don''t think that was a compliment.
He gets up and goes in the other room. Then the son comes in and dad tells me he is up on this "newer" stuff I''m talking about. He''s nice too. Lines up 4 diff. stones and shows us how to see the color diff. But is rather perplexed as well on what to show me. Asks if I want to see a Cushion. I did. It''s also 1.5 carats, but an SI2. Again, no sparkly, and many inclusions. It did look bigger than the Radiant, which obviously we both liked. But that was it. Mr. asked to see better quality stones, they were never offered. At this point, I''d had enough, and we got up to leave.
We''re all standing at the door chatting, our friend''s there too. The old man looks at me and says, you can be too educated. I politely respond, I don''t think one can be too educated. He says he guesses we have different thoughts on the matter, and I agree. We left.
So, I cal my BIL''s jeweler, tell her what shapes I''m after, and she then asks what I want to see. I told her just under 1.5 to just under 2 carats, VS2 and SI1 eye clean. She then says, you''ve been on the internet. Now, I don''t actually know what she meant by that, but I know how I took it. I told her I''d tried to do my homework, this is a lot of money. She didn''t say much...She had a few Radiants and ONE Cushion. Said she''d try to get more in by next week.
I feel like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman after her first attempt to go shopping....
Sorry this is so long, but I needed to vent. And now what confidence I had has been shaken. I thought this would be fun, but it''s just like buying a car. You feel like everyone is out to take you for a ride. lol No pun intended.
Thanks to all who actually read my whole rant.
And before you suggest it, if it keeps up like this, yes, I will consider buying online, which I wouldn''t have dreamed of before this.