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Brilliant_Rock
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I''m scheduled to return to work July 21st after being home with my LO for 12 weeks. I''m really struggling with this decision. I''d like to list out the pros and cons here and also explain my personal situation and possibly get some helpful feedback.
First off, I don''t make an admin salary, but I''m not close to 6 figures either. I work for a small oil and gas company where I really have it pretty good. I don''t love what I do, but how many of us can say we do? The benefits are great, but there''s no maternity policy...just disability which isn''t much.
My DH makes enough to support us to where I think we''d still live pretty comfortably, but he''s made it clear he wants me to return to work eventually. Like 6-12 months from now. When I was pregnant I thought: Well, if I''m going to have to work, I may as well stay with this company since I have 2 years invested there. I''d hate to start my search all over and possibly get stuck with a company or boss I don''t like. (I''ve been there.)
On the other hand, I have the option to stay home with my baby for a good length of time and then look for something else...a job that maybe I''d enjoy more. Let''s say I go with this option. Now I have the dilemma of do I inform my employer of that now? Or return to work for a day? A week? What if they question my motives and think I''ve planned this the entire time? Could they reverse my benefits for the last month of leave that I didn''t pay the premiums for?
I''m really stressing over this!
First off, I don''t make an admin salary, but I''m not close to 6 figures either. I work for a small oil and gas company where I really have it pretty good. I don''t love what I do, but how many of us can say we do? The benefits are great, but there''s no maternity policy...just disability which isn''t much.
My DH makes enough to support us to where I think we''d still live pretty comfortably, but he''s made it clear he wants me to return to work eventually. Like 6-12 months from now. When I was pregnant I thought: Well, if I''m going to have to work, I may as well stay with this company since I have 2 years invested there. I''d hate to start my search all over and possibly get stuck with a company or boss I don''t like. (I''ve been there.)
On the other hand, I have the option to stay home with my baby for a good length of time and then look for something else...a job that maybe I''d enjoy more. Let''s say I go with this option. Now I have the dilemma of do I inform my employer of that now? Or return to work for a day? A week? What if they question my motives and think I''ve planned this the entire time? Could they reverse my benefits for the last month of leave that I didn''t pay the premiums for?
I''m really stressing over this!