Date: 2/27/2009 11:31:47 PM
Author: zhuzhu
Date: 2/27/2009 11:00:07 PM
Author: DivaDiamond007
Date: 2/27/2009 2:19:04 AM
Author: purrfectpear
I can hear it. Sorry but it is about me. I am not going to throw several hundred thousand dollars down the rabbit hole to maintain my popularity at the club house. I don't have that need. You're right, you have me pegged. I am all about taking care of myself.
I'm not trying to convince anyone my decision is correct for them. It's correct for me. I didn't expect accolades or encouragement. I'm not that silly. I'm just a very open person, entirely comfortable with myself, willing to share some thoughts on why some people are OK with returning a home held in collateral.
Purrfectpear - I'd like to thank you for sharing your story here on PS, even though it's obviously not a popular choice. I support your decision 100% because sometimes you just need to take care of yourself and not worry about what others might think of you. I am sorry that you are going through a rough financial patch.
For those criticizing Purrfecpear, I'd like to know what you'd do in her shoes. It's easy to pass judgment on someone when you're not in the same situation, and especially since it seems that many of the posters in this forum are comfortable in their finances. Please remember before passing judgment (on anyone) that not everyone here enjoys that luxury (i.e. ME).
She's obviously put a lot of thought into her decision and what's done is done. A foreclosure on her credit report is certainly not good, but it's also not the worst case scenario either. She'll take a hit on her score, but the effect will be short term at best.
In my area of the country (Northwest Ohio) I don't think we've seen rock bottom just yet. There will be another wave of foreclosures/bankruptcies when the rates adjust again on the ARMs and if/when the 'Big 3' fail. Automotive jobs are huge in this area so there will be many 'victims of circumstance' that end up in foreclosure or in my office seeking bankruptcy advice. Also, like I stated in my first post in this thread, the housing prices here are still outpacing income so I think that's something that will have to change before things start to level out over in my neck of the woods.
I've been thinking a lot about what has happened in our country relating to this lending crises and I really think that mortgage lending should become standardized across the board. If you make $X then you qualify for $X. If your credit score is X then your interest rate is X%. If you put X% down then you can qualify for a larger principal amount on the loan, also depending on your income and credit score. That way there's no confusion as to the terms of the loan on either end. Just an idea.
PP is not a 'victim of circumstance'. She CAN afford her mortgage. She chose NOT to because she does not feel like paying more for her home than what her home is currently appraised for. She is not the victim of the economic crisis, but her decision could very well contribute to the continued downward spiral of the economy.
I have plenty of sympathy for people who HAVE TO foreclose because of layoffs and illness, but for those who simply chose to back out from their mortgage commitment because 'the situation does not suit them financially', it is not really good enough of an excuse in my book. If she can live well with her decision, good for her; but to ask others who are going to be affected (which is all of us, you included) because of her action not to 'judge', is a little ironic.
i would tend to agree with you. when one is employed, has plenty of cash reserves to hold her for, i believe she stated two years, she is hardly the victim. she says she has business acumen and she has been very blunt in her judgments of others situations posted here. i have nothing against pp i think she is bailing because she has buyer's remorse. what she purchased did not hold its value and so she does not want to continue making the payments. it has been stated that california law allows this option and she is taking it. she did not have to tell us her story but she did and some of us just don't agree that her choice is the best.
eta: but i do know it is her choice and not mine. i am only commenting because i am concerned about the ramifications of so many foreclosures on the current struggling economy.