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I have very similar situation.
I have tried to give my son the tools and permission to not feel this is his responsibility. But---he is a good young man with morals and he looked at me and said "but I would take care of you Mom, if you needed it. I have to do the same for my father."
I understand what he is saying and have to respect it. I don't like that his father is putting him in this position but I can't control that.
@Elizabeth35[/USER] thank you for your post. This is why I have helped my dad, even after I know I am being lied to. At the end of the day I know I have to look at myself in the mirror. I would worse not helping him then helping him. I’ve done many things thru the years to help family, friends and complete strangers. I’m unable to turn my back on my dad even after being in therapy about it. My brothers will have nothing to do with him. There are days I wish I could do the same.