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My oldest son has a pot-head dead beat for a father. He mooched off of me for 8 years. Now he mooches off of his mom and has done so since I left. She pays all of his bills. She’s convinced herself that he’s incapable of supporting himself.
My son loves his dad but sees him for who he is. My son is in grad school and plans to pursue his Ph.D. His career won’t be crazy lucrative. He will be a writer and a college professor. I am supporting him through college and have been this entire time.
His father has never...ever...contributed in any meaningful financial way to my son’s life. He has bought my son video games.
This weekend, my son’s grandma came to visit and asked when my son planned to “quit school and join the workforce.” And proceeded to talk to my son’s girlfriend about when they would take on supporting my son’s dad. Understand that both my son and his girlfriend are sweet, sweet, sweet and passive as all get out. They just stared at her.
My son doesn’t want to support his dad. His dad is a loud mouth abusive narcissist who forces himself on just about anyone.
I’m LIVID!!!! I’m cussing out my mirror LIVID! I want to call the B@tch and set her straight. That way she can put her affairs in order accordingly. I’ve given my son a myriad of advice but I can tell by his reaction that he won’t take any of it.
I’m just not sure how to empower my son at this time. Any advice for this crappy situation?
My son loves his dad but sees him for who he is. My son is in grad school and plans to pursue his Ph.D. His career won’t be crazy lucrative. He will be a writer and a college professor. I am supporting him through college and have been this entire time.
His father has never...ever...contributed in any meaningful financial way to my son’s life. He has bought my son video games.
This weekend, my son’s grandma came to visit and asked when my son planned to “quit school and join the workforce.” And proceeded to talk to my son’s girlfriend about when they would take on supporting my son’s dad. Understand that both my son and his girlfriend are sweet, sweet, sweet and passive as all get out. They just stared at her.
My son doesn’t want to support his dad. His dad is a loud mouth abusive narcissist who forces himself on just about anyone.
I’m LIVID!!!! I’m cussing out my mirror LIVID! I want to call the B@tch and set her straight. That way she can put her affairs in order accordingly. I’ve given my son a myriad of advice but I can tell by his reaction that he won’t take any of it.
I’m just not sure how to empower my son at this time. Any advice for this crappy situation?