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Ideal_Rock
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I don''t know if this is the right forum for this topic, but it''s not really about wedding or engagement planning.
So we''d been having problems for a long time. We tried counselling, but we were long distance and it was difficult. We worked very hard at it but in the end we just couldn''t fix the problems and getting married would have been the wrong thing to do. My gut has been telling me for months now that things were not ok and they certainly would not improve with marriage. It was a really difficult decision but I''ve mostly just been feeling relieved since it happened, and I know it was the right thing to do.
My family and friends have just been incredible. So supportive. So have his family. I am young and have loads of options in front of me, so deciding what to do next is rather exciting. I know there will be someone right for me in the future who will treat me with all the respect I deserve, but for now I''m really looking forward to being a little selfish and focusing on myself.
All in all it''s a positive thing. But I''d still like some PS hugs and support please
So we''d been having problems for a long time. We tried counselling, but we were long distance and it was difficult. We worked very hard at it but in the end we just couldn''t fix the problems and getting married would have been the wrong thing to do. My gut has been telling me for months now that things were not ok and they certainly would not improve with marriage. It was a really difficult decision but I''ve mostly just been feeling relieved since it happened, and I know it was the right thing to do.
My family and friends have just been incredible. So supportive. So have his family. I am young and have loads of options in front of me, so deciding what to do next is rather exciting. I know there will be someone right for me in the future who will treat me with all the respect I deserve, but for now I''m really looking forward to being a little selfish and focusing on myself.
All in all it''s a positive thing. But I''d still like some PS hugs and support please
