Nyc2chigal
Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Feb 14, 2013
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I'll be honest...
John is in the wrong, but Jane is not innocent, either.
Men think differently than women do. Their needs are different.
If you reject your husband repeatedly, don't take care of yourself, and have the attitude she has (I doubt her refusal to do anything to salvage the marriage started there), then don't be shocked if crap like this happens.
Before anyone bites my head off, I know every situation is different.
If the roles were reversed, I think some people would actually feel for Jane.. that she was being neglected, and that she needed someone to connect with, blah blah...
If Jane doesn't want to get a divorce, she needs to be involved in the repair. Period.
John is in the wrong, but Jane is not innocent, either.
Men think differently than women do. Their needs are different.
If you reject your husband repeatedly, don't take care of yourself, and have the attitude she has (I doubt her refusal to do anything to salvage the marriage started there), then don't be shocked if crap like this happens.
Before anyone bites my head off, I know every situation is different.
If the roles were reversed, I think some people would actually feel for Jane.. that she was being neglected, and that she needed someone to connect with, blah blah...
If Jane doesn't want to get a divorce, she needs to be involved in the repair. Period.