First of all I''d like to say "what a fabulous community!" you have here. I''ve been reading the forums all night and found the variety, sincerity, and general good nature of posters immensely helpful. Since deciding to pop the question earlier this summer, "the search" has left my head spinning and I feel like I haven''t even started! I''m hoping this great community of folks can help me to start focusing so I can actually buy the ring and stop reading about them!
After my research I set my heart on getting a round ideal in a solitaire setting (old fashion + geometric/optical perfection fits me I guess). I talked to my parents about my decision and before even mentioning a ring, my mom says "just don''t get a round diamond, they''re so ordinary." (she has a round diamond, but I guess in her 37 years of marriage she''s bored of them
) I pretty much brushed that off... but it did make me realize that women might be less about the mathematical precision of the stone and more about an intangible aspect of it. So I enlisted a friend to find out what my gf likes. I couldn''t believe it when the report came back: "round stones are just so... ordinary." She like cushion shapes. Women...
My thinking at this point is a cushion center stone, 1ct+, maybe in a 3 stone setting with rounds on either side. Or perhaps something "antique-y" because I think she would like detail work on the band.... but a lot of settings described as antique are gaudy and really detract from the center stone I think. When I think of an antique I imagine details in the metal casting from a bygone era of artisans, like you''d find in woodwork. I guess the jewelry industry doesn''t quite suffer from that phenomenon.
From these boards and elsewhere I''ve come across these settings that I like the appearance and style of (though many seem to be for "round" stones and I have no idea if cushion stones can just be substituted in:
Adore
Mystic
custom
ERD 3 stone
In terms of price, I think I''d like the finished ring to be under $8k. Above that and I start to feel like I should be proposing with a car. Her most expensive piece of jewelry is probably ~$100-$150 and her thriftiness is why I''m building the ring myself and surprising her. I think the sticker shock would keep her from enjoying the experience. If she doesn''t like it, wants to improve it, or upgrade it later, that''s fine with me. From looking at bluenile, exceldiamonds, and here on pricescope I think I''m looking at a $6k stone (so a $2k setting). I''d like to go with platinum, however, and some of these designer settings look like they''re going to be quite expensive. Should I start preparing myself for expanding the budget?
I found an earlier post dubbing Mark Turnowski of ERD as the "cushion king". I like the diamond in that post, and his prices for loose stones look on par... but no settings that I could find (and didn''t really care for the round settings either). Anything I''m missing?
Any suggestions people might have for a setting would be much appreciated. Tomorrow will be my first trip to a brick and mortar jewelry store to spend some hours looking over their offerings in person. If there are any smaller non-chain jewelers in the DC area that I should check out, let me know. I''ve picked out an IA and I''d like to have the stone I end up with sent to him. I''m not sure yet how that all works if I buy a setting from a different jeweler than where I buy the stone, but I''ll worry about that later.
Thanks!
After my research I set my heart on getting a round ideal in a solitaire setting (old fashion + geometric/optical perfection fits me I guess). I talked to my parents about my decision and before even mentioning a ring, my mom says "just don''t get a round diamond, they''re so ordinary." (she has a round diamond, but I guess in her 37 years of marriage she''s bored of them

My thinking at this point is a cushion center stone, 1ct+, maybe in a 3 stone setting with rounds on either side. Or perhaps something "antique-y" because I think she would like detail work on the band.... but a lot of settings described as antique are gaudy and really detract from the center stone I think. When I think of an antique I imagine details in the metal casting from a bygone era of artisans, like you''d find in woodwork. I guess the jewelry industry doesn''t quite suffer from that phenomenon.
From these boards and elsewhere I''ve come across these settings that I like the appearance and style of (though many seem to be for "round" stones and I have no idea if cushion stones can just be substituted in:
Adore
Mystic
custom
ERD 3 stone
In terms of price, I think I''d like the finished ring to be under $8k. Above that and I start to feel like I should be proposing with a car. Her most expensive piece of jewelry is probably ~$100-$150 and her thriftiness is why I''m building the ring myself and surprising her. I think the sticker shock would keep her from enjoying the experience. If she doesn''t like it, wants to improve it, or upgrade it later, that''s fine with me. From looking at bluenile, exceldiamonds, and here on pricescope I think I''m looking at a $6k stone (so a $2k setting). I''d like to go with platinum, however, and some of these designer settings look like they''re going to be quite expensive. Should I start preparing myself for expanding the budget?
I found an earlier post dubbing Mark Turnowski of ERD as the "cushion king". I like the diamond in that post, and his prices for loose stones look on par... but no settings that I could find (and didn''t really care for the round settings either). Anything I''m missing?
Any suggestions people might have for a setting would be much appreciated. Tomorrow will be my first trip to a brick and mortar jewelry store to spend some hours looking over their offerings in person. If there are any smaller non-chain jewelers in the DC area that I should check out, let me know. I''ve picked out an IA and I''d like to have the stone I end up with sent to him. I''m not sure yet how that all works if I buy a setting from a different jeweler than where I buy the stone, but I''ll worry about that later.
Thanks!