Help Buying an OEC

[Sakuracherry]

Hello everyone,

I’m looking to buy an OEC for a ring. I have emailed/sent DMs to 8 vendors, but most of them are not responsive.

Alex and Caysie (I would love to have her make a platinum solitaire) were quick to respond, but they don’t have anything I would like in stock.

Budget: 9k
Size: 1.2-1.7 (flexible)
Color: D-I
Clarity: Eye-clean VS2/SI

I don’t think I have unrealistic expectations. Please let me know if you have any suggestion/recommendation.

 

[elrohwen]

Did you try Adam at OWD? If he doesn't answer your email give him a call, he probably just forgot to get back to it. I've bought a few stones from him and he's been very helpful, though I did have to follow up on the email once or twice. He has a good eye and won't pressure you to keep something he's sent to you.

 

[winnietucker]

Ooh sorry to hear that. The non-responsive thing grinds me. Both Ivy & Rose and Sako (CJD_Sako on IG) might be able to help you too. I’ve found them both to be easy to communicate with.

 

[Sakuracherry]

Did you try Adam at OWD? If he doesn't answer your email give him a call, he probably just forgot to get back to it. I've bought a few stones from him and he's been very helpful, though I did have to follow up on the email once or twice. He has a good eye and won't pressure you to keep something he's sent to you.

After two emails and one DM over the course of two weeks, I’ve given up. I assumed he had been busy or my budget was too small. If I absolutely have no other option, I’ll think about calling him.

 

[Sakuracherry]

Ooh sorry to hear that. The non-responsive thing grinds me. Both Ivy & Rose and Sako (CJD_Sako on IG) might be able to help you too. I’ve found them both to be easy to communicate with.

Ivy & Rose didn’t get back to me. Sako said he’d look “tomorrow” a while ago, but I haven’t heard back from him.

 

[winnietucker]

Ivy & Rose didn’t get back to me. Sako said he’d look “tomorrow” a while ago, but I haven’t heard back from him.

What a shame... I might call I&R given their prices are typically very nice. I dealt with them mostly over the phone and found Ilya to be very patient and helpful but I think it was someone else who did the emails. Hopefully someone gets back to you soon.

 

[Bonfire]

D-I color range might be a challenge. Good luck with your search, hopefully you will find the perfect stone.

 

[LLJsmom]

D-I color range might be a challenge. Good luck with your search, hopefully you will find the perfect stone.

That is exactly the answer. There aren’t many D-I OECs around. Most have been recut. I assume you’ve seen a F-D OEC IRL and you like them more than the warmer colors right? I ask simply because I’ve found I actually prefer warmer colors in OEC as I feel like I see more rainbows. The whiter colors reflect more shades of white to me. Of course that could just be a dysfunction of my eyesight. Lol!

 

[LightBright]

Did you try looking and following Parks Fine Group on Instagram? He has nicely cut antique diamonds and can do settings.

 

[Sakuracherry]

D-I color range might be a challenge. Good luck with your search, hopefully you will find the perfect stone.

I agree with you. Grace always seems to have a couple of colorless OECs, but I don’t see them often on other vendors’ websites.

 

[Sakuracherry]

That is exactly the answer. There aren’t many D-I OECs around. Most have been recut. I assume you’ve seen a F-D OEC IRL and you like them more than the warmer colors right? I ask simply because I’ve found I actually prefer warmer colors in OEC as I feel like I see more rainbows. The whiter colors reflect more shades of white to me. Of course that could just be a dysfunction of my eyesight. Lol!

Yes. I currently own a couple of colorless to near colorless OECs. I’ve owned a K and an O-P, but sold them both. I think there are many beautiful lower colored OECs. My necklace stone is a L and I don’t mind its warmth at all. I just prefer colorless to near colorless stones for rings.

 

[Sakuracherry]

Did you try looking and following Parks Fine Group on Instagram? He has nicely cut antique diamonds and can do settings.

I have notifications turned on for his posts. He always has beautiful stones!

 

[LLJsmom]

Yes. I currently own a couple of colorless to near colorless OECs. I’ve owned a K and an O-P, but sold them both. I think there are many beautiful lower colored OECs. My necklace stone is a L and I don’t mind its warmth at all. I just prefer colorless to near colorless stones for rings.

Gotcha. So yeah, I think finding high color, well cut OECs is more challenging than J and below. I hope something turns up for you! Would you consider an AVR or CER? At least that gets you a high color... and your budget would allow for it.

 

[Cerulean]

After two emails and one DM over the course of two weeks, I’ve given up. I assumed he had been busy or my budget was too small. If I absolutely have no other option, I’ll think about calling him.

I also never got a response to him after 2 emails and a call/VM and similar budget...so it’s not personal!

I just snagged this 1.3 carat E OEC from Grace - so I’d definitely try her!

She has some closer to the carat mark that are G-H...might be too small?

 

[Sakuracherry]

Gotcha. So yeah, I think finding high color, well cut OECs is more challenging than J and below. I hope something turns up for you! Would you consider an AVR or CER? At least that gets you a high color... and your budget would allow for it.

I like both AVR and CER, but my partner prefers a real antique stone. I find both newly cut old style stones and true antique stones beautiful.

 

[Sakuracherry]

I also never got a response to him after 2 emails and a call/VM and similar budget...so it’s not personal!

I just snagged this 1.3 carat E OEC from Grace - so I’d definitely try her!

She has some closer to the carat mark that are G-H...might be too small?

I was so jealous when you bought the stone, haha. I was actually considering that stone and the one linked below. Grace hasn’t gotten back to me in 6 days. I don’t want to bother her, and I don’t really like rushing people.

1.74ct Old European Cut Diamond Solitaire, GIA I SI1

Elegant and timeless solitaire showcasing a later cut old European cut diamond with the prettiest make! The diamond has that much desired flowery facet pattern under the table, and gorgeous light play. Set in a simple and timeless solitaire in rose gold - super romantic on the finger. The ring...

www.jewelsbygrace.com

 

[Cerulean]

I was so jealous when you bought the stone, haha. I was actually considering that stone and the one linked below. Grace hasn’t gotten back to me in 6 days. I don’t want to bother her, but I don’t really like rushing people.

1.74ct Old European Cut Diamond Solitaire, GIA I SI1

Elegant and timeless solitaire showcasing a later cut old European cut diamond with the prettiest make! The diamond has that much desired flowery facet pattern under the table, and gorgeous light play. Set in a simple and timeless solitaire in rose gold - super romantic on the finger. The ring...

www.jewelsbygrace.com

Aww I’m sorry you missed out! I wish I could replicate it so we could both enjoy it. I was looking at the one you linked too! What you trade in color you’d get in size. It’s got a really pretty facet pattern. I’d nudge her again and CC Jenny her assistant to nudge her [email protected]m

edit: sorry not her assistant, but Jenny is the client services manager and was really responsive

 

[elrohwen]

I get not wanting to bother people but I think sometimes you just have to be persistent and not take it personally that they forget to get back to you. The stuff I’ve bought from OWD was all under $2k so I’m sure budget could be part of it but people will work with smaller budgets. I would really call, email often doesn’t work that well for some reason. And I get it because it really bothers me when people don’t respond to my emails and I hate calling people but I’ve had the best results when I put it aside and just called or kept poking them (not just talking about jewelry here either)

 

[Kaycee2018]

I know nothing about this seller and one is a tad smaller than you are looking, but just saw these And thought of your post.

This item is unavailable - Etsy

Find the perfect handmade gift, vintage & on-trend clothes, unique jewelry, and more… lots more.

www.etsy.com

HOLD Antique Early 1900's Old European Cut GIA 1.35 Ct - Etsy

A beautiful antique early 1900s old European cut GIA 1.35 ct diamond solitaire engagement ring in 14k yellow gold. This stunning antique engagement ring features a GIA graded super white bright and clean sparkling romantic old European cut round solitaire diamond prong set in a low profile classic

www.etsy.com

 

[Sakuracherry]

I get not wanting to bother people but I think sometimes you just have to be persistent and not take it personally that they forget to get back to you. The stuff I’ve bought from OWD was all under $2k so I’m sure budget could be part of it but people will work with smaller budgets. I would really call, email often doesn’t work that well for some reason. And I get it because it really bothers me when people don’t respond to my emails and I hate calling people but I’ve had the best results when I put it aside and just called or kept poking them (not just talking about jewelry here either)

Thank you for the advice. I will call him on Monday.

 

[Sakuracherry]

I know nothing about this seller and one is a tad smaller than you are looking, but just saw these And thought of your post.

This item is unavailable - Etsy

Find the perfect handmade gift, vintage & on-trend clothes, unique jewelry, and more… lots more.

www.etsy.com

HOLD Antique Early 1900's Old European Cut GIA 1.35 Ct - Etsy

A beautiful antique early 1900s old European cut GIA 1.35 ct diamond solitaire engagement ring in 14k yellow gold. This stunning antique engagement ring features a GIA graded super white bright and clean sparkling romantic old European cut round solitaire diamond prong set in a low profile classic

www.etsy.com

I follow the seller on Instagram, and considered purchasing the second option. It's pretty, but I'm not in love with the stone for some reason.

 

[Cerulean]

@Sakuracherry Adam JUST replied to me - want me to give him a nudge for you and say someone I know is looking for a stone like mine? I am not sure how to refer him to you but wanted to offer. he said my email got lost in spam, maybe yours did too

I am not very shy about such matters

 

[Sakuracherry]

@Sakuracherry Adam JUST replied to me - want me to give him a nudge for you and say someone I know is looking for a stone like mine? I am not sure how to refer him to you but wanted to offer. he said my email got lost in spam, maybe yours did too

I am not very shy about such matters

Wow, it took a while! Thank you for the offer. I will call him on Monday and see what happens.

 

[Cerulean]

Wow, it took a while! Thank you for the offer. I will call him on Monday and see what happens.

No problem. Good luck - hopefully he has what you are looking for!

 

[elrohwen]

I’m glad you’re going to call him! I hope he has something for you. I’d give JbG a poke too.

 

[Cerulean]

Oooooh what about this one?

https://www.jewelsbygrace.com/1-46ct-old-european-cut-wedding-ring-set-gia-h-si2

 

[Sakuracherry]

Oooooh what about this one?

https://www.jewelsbygrace.com/1-46ct-old-european-cut-wedding-ring-set-gia-h-si2

The diamond is cut shallow and has a relatively big table for an OEC. Since I’ll have to have a platinum setting, I’d like to purchase only a diamond if possible.

 

[Cerulean]

The diamond is cut shallow and has a relatively big table for an OEC. Since I’ll have to have a platinum setting, I’d like to purchase only a diamond if possible.

Yeah I noticed that (RE shallow cut) - I also wasn't sure if the SI2 clarity struck your fancy - but wanted to share in case you missed it!

 

[winnietucker]

1.24 Carat Round Natural Diamond GIA I Color VS2 Old European Brilliant Cut | eBay

This is a beautiful 1.24 carat round loose diamond. It has a GIA Diamond Dossier certificate from 2019. The stone is an “I” color and VS2 clarity. It has NO Fluorescence. Laser inscribed on the girdle with GIA report #2205805333.

www.ebay.com

An option I came across.

 

[Sakuracherry]

Yeah I noticed that (RE shallow cut) - I also wasn't sure if the SI2 clarity struck your fancy - but wanted to share in case you missed it!

Thank you for the suggestion, though. I appreciate it! It’s very likely that I have not noticed pretty stones for sale on many websites.