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Ideal_Rock
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To the ladies that added their personal stories. OuPeargirl, DebShine, Purelily, swom324,WinksElf, Miscka
WOWZA! and not in a good way. WHAT TURDS! I mean this LITERALLY. When you put something nice and sweet into a relationship, and it comes out as $hit, dont take it out of the toilet and re-eat!!! NO, FLUSH IT AWAY! Bye Bye, MAN-TURD!
I know, that was a REALLY gross visual. But if you are not down with eating feces, then don''t take their crap! You all are gorgeous women who deserve so much better, and I am glad that you women agree, and are doing well... happy w/ new loves!
Ok, sorry I was soo repulsive! HUGS HUGS!
Thomp, things will get better, and I am glad you have moved to the anger stage. I think it is Denial that it is over, anger that they are gone, bargaining is next "if I only did this, he would have...", Depression - the actual sadness for the happy times, then acceptance.
This can take awhile to get over... depending on how long you are in each of the stages. Sometimes they say it will take twice as long... but I don''t believe that. It takes as long as you let it hold onto you. He was right about setting it free. Let go of the hurt, the anger, all of those emotions. Let go of the happy times too. I just think he was being a turd by sending the email. It was like the one that HURT you is telling you how to get over it... whatever. Best wishes to you. I am not the best to give advice, but I have found women usually fall head over heals in love w/ the next serious guy the date after the heartbreaker. You aren''t willing to take the crap anymore, and so you move on...
My personal example, to make this post EVEN LONGER, I dated a guy and then I found out he was cheating on me... he took pictures of a woman we worked with cleaning the banana, and happened to show this picture to one of my guy friends. (He thought the guy friend wouldn''t tell me bcuz of guy code.) Guy friend told me (thinking I''d run into HIS arms) and instead I ran off w/ his best friend
. TOTALLY Dumped the turd who cheated... and fast forward a few years, married the best friend!
So, based off of my example... start dating!
Honestly, huge hugs... things will get much better, I promise!
WOWZA! and not in a good way. WHAT TURDS! I mean this LITERALLY. When you put something nice and sweet into a relationship, and it comes out as $hit, dont take it out of the toilet and re-eat!!! NO, FLUSH IT AWAY! Bye Bye, MAN-TURD!
I know, that was a REALLY gross visual. But if you are not down with eating feces, then don''t take their crap! You all are gorgeous women who deserve so much better, and I am glad that you women agree, and are doing well... happy w/ new loves!
Ok, sorry I was soo repulsive! HUGS HUGS!
Thomp, things will get better, and I am glad you have moved to the anger stage. I think it is Denial that it is over, anger that they are gone, bargaining is next "if I only did this, he would have...", Depression - the actual sadness for the happy times, then acceptance.
This can take awhile to get over... depending on how long you are in each of the stages. Sometimes they say it will take twice as long... but I don''t believe that. It takes as long as you let it hold onto you. He was right about setting it free. Let go of the hurt, the anger, all of those emotions. Let go of the happy times too. I just think he was being a turd by sending the email. It was like the one that HURT you is telling you how to get over it... whatever. Best wishes to you. I am not the best to give advice, but I have found women usually fall head over heals in love w/ the next serious guy the date after the heartbreaker. You aren''t willing to take the crap anymore, and so you move on...
My personal example, to make this post EVEN LONGER, I dated a guy and then I found out he was cheating on me... he took pictures of a woman we worked with cleaning the banana, and happened to show this picture to one of my guy friends. (He thought the guy friend wouldn''t tell me bcuz of guy code.) Guy friend told me (thinking I''d run into HIS arms) and instead I ran off w/ his best friend

So, based off of my example... start dating!

Honestly, huge hugs... things will get much better, I promise!
