funnyface786
Rough_Rock
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- Apr 21, 2009
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As of right now, for those who know, I posted a whole thread a while ago about a breakup with my SO of 1 year that I saw myself seriously marrying one day. Long story short, he pulled the rug and just randomly came to me one day with "I''m not into this... I don''t know if I want to be together anymore". He haven''t talked since then, (about 2 1/2 months). I did my crying and being insanely angry and confused, however, I finally got past that crazy part and decided I wanted to make en effort to make some peace and fully move forward. Just tired of the silence and not knowing how else to process it, other than with anger and confusion. Also, I am a bridesmaid of a mutual friend of ours, and this wedding where I knew I would have to see him again for the first time is looming...
I contacted him and made it clear that I thought it was immature of us to pretend like the other doesn''t exist, and I really didn''t want things to be awkward at the wedding. I said I wanted to make something good about this, and at least acknowledge eachother''s existence again, and try to be friends. He fully agreed.
So he talks to me occasionally (online), here and there. Sometimes it feels good to be moving on, sometimes I still feel sad, but most of the time its still always awkward. Sometimes I still miss him, sometimes I want to move on. The only thing I know for sure is that I wanted that contact to be open with him, especially since we are in the same circle of friends.
We haven''t talked about the breakup at all. Its still this strange phase where we are acting like friends that haven''t talked in a while, but I have no idea what will come from this.
Have any of you gone through this? Can you be "friends" with an ex?
I contacted him and made it clear that I thought it was immature of us to pretend like the other doesn''t exist, and I really didn''t want things to be awkward at the wedding. I said I wanted to make something good about this, and at least acknowledge eachother''s existence again, and try to be friends. He fully agreed.
So he talks to me occasionally (online), here and there. Sometimes it feels good to be moving on, sometimes I still feel sad, but most of the time its still always awkward. Sometimes I still miss him, sometimes I want to move on. The only thing I know for sure is that I wanted that contact to be open with him, especially since we are in the same circle of friends.
We haven''t talked about the breakup at all. Its still this strange phase where we are acting like friends that haven''t talked in a while, but I have no idea what will come from this.
Have any of you gone through this? Can you be "friends" with an ex?