Ex spanked by the courts

[lioness]

So the ex has lost in court three times in two weeks. I'm not talking obscure procedural motions. This are whoopings on substantive issues. I wonder if this string of defeats will be enough for him to accept the inevitable and he'll stop paying money that should be spent on child support on the fantasies that his lawyer is feeding him....

 

[monarch64]

Ha, your ex is a piece of shit and it's unfortunate he hasn't realized that about himself by now!

I've been following your story. I think you and your children will move on just fine from this. Too bad he's hanging on for dear life worrying about himself instead of his kids. What a tool.

Lioness, you've demonstrated great character throughout this mess, from what I've read. Great for you and great for your kids to see you stand up for yourself. Someday soon this will be all over and you can completely move forward with your awesome self and your children. And then you can smile into the wind and give a huge gesture of **** YOU to your ex. Please don't hesitate to share that moment with us!

 

[Gypsy]

Good news for you!

I would ask your lawyer if there are grounds to report his lawyer to the bar.

 

[missy]

Happy for you lioness. Good news for you and bad new for your ex. I hope this ordeal is over for you very soon!

 

[junebug17]

Good news! I hope it discourages him from continuing with all of this, I'm sure it's taking a toll on you - so sorry you are going through this, I hope it ends for you and your children soon.

 

[Lady_Disdain]

Oh, yeah! I was waiting for an update from you.

 

[Andelain]

So the ex has lost in court three times in two weeks. I'm not talking obscure procedural motions. This are whoopings on substantive issues. I wonder if this string of defeats will be enough for him to accept the inevitable and he'll stop paying money that should be spent on child support on the fantasies that his lawyer is feeding him....

 

[NTave]

When you are dealing with a narcissist, they don't see beyond the power the lawyer feeds them, they don't actually see the rulings as punishment. I hope in your case he pays child support. In my case it still took years and years before the state caught up with him and he had hidden every asset and there was/is nothing to catch him..don't hold your breath on actually receiving anything the court orders. I'm glad you are free. I hope the bs is a minimum for you because truly it never stops when you are dealing with an ego instead of a person. It's much better being out on the other side with a man like that. Stay strong girl!

 

[arkieb1]

I am glad it is all going well for you!!!! Stay strong. Men like this don't get ever period. Hopefully soon enough that won't be your problem any more.

 

[movie zombie]

very very good news!
you are indeed a Lioness!

 

[momhappy]

That's good news! I hope that it continues to go in your favor, lioness

 

[SB621]

Ha, your ex is a piece of shit and it's unfortunate he hasn't realized that about himself by now!

I've been following your story. I think you and your children will move on just fine from this. Too bad he's hanging on for dear life worrying about himself instead of his kids. What a tool.

Lioness, you've demonstrated great character throughout this mess, from what I've read. Great for you and great for your kids to see you stand up for yourself. Someday soon this will be all over and you can completely move forward with your awesome self and your children. And then you can smile into the wind and give a huge gesture of [censored] YOU to your ex. Please don't hesitate to share that moment with us!

Couldn't have said it better myself!

So happy for you Lioness. It gives me some faith in the world and our court system.

 

[Enerchi]

So happy to get this update, Lioness!!! You deserve a huge break and I hope this is the turning point that lets you soar, and the idiot SINK!

ROAR with the rest of the world now, you fierce lioness, you!!!

 

[lioness]

Ha, your ex is a piece of shit and it's unfortunate he hasn't realized that about himself by now!

I've been following your story. I think you and your children will move on just fine from this. Too bad he's hanging on for dear life worrying about himself instead of his kids. What a tool.

Lioness, you've demonstrated great character throughout this mess, from what I've read. Great for you and great for your kids to see you stand up for yourself. Someday soon this will be all over and you can completely move forward with your awesome self and your children. And then you can smile into the wind and give a huge gesture of [censored] YOU to your ex. Please don't hesitate to share that moment with us!

You're too kind. Unfortunately, my girls figured out on their own that their father is a douche who's more than willing to make them suffer in his ill-conceived vendetta against me. He hasn't figured out that he's actually insane yet because he has an entire misogynistic cult telling him that women are weak and passive and that he will outlast me.

No. You see, he hurt my children.

As for the right *&%$ YOU gesture, I'm particularly fond of the Turkish version, as taught to me by a boyfriend many years ago. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oAF4h5pT_KA Forward to 2:20. Cenk's representing Istanbul righteously; he has the snapping sound and the hand quiver down like a boss.

 

[lioness]

Good news for you!

I would ask your lawyer if there are grounds to report his lawyer to the bar.

I wish, However, all you need to practice here it to graduate from law school. Bar membership (note that I didn't say admission) is for the top attorneys in the country and they use it for networking purposes. My lawyers are members of the bar. His lawyer is not.

 

[lioness]

Happy for you lioness. Good news for you and bad new for your ex. I hope this ordeal is over for you very soon!

Thank you. More rulings are due this week. A sane person would have figured out by now that his lawyer is simply stealing money that should go to his children. But then there's my ex, and he and sanity haven't been in the same time zone for ages....

 

[lioness]

Good news! I hope it discourages him from continuing with all of this, I'm sure it's taking a toll on you - so sorry you are going through this, I hope it ends for you and your children soon.

It's taking a toll on me but I'm a tough beeyatch. Bring it on. I can take it, gift-wrap it and send it back with a court order attached. However, he's hurting our children. My children. Pandora's box had nothing in it that could compare to a woman whose children feel that they're in danger and need to be be protected from an abuser.

 

[lioness]

So the ex has lost in court three times in two weeks. I'm not talking obscure procedural motions. This are whoopings on substantive issues. I wonder if this string of defeats will be enough for him to accept the inevitable and he'll stop paying money that should be spent on child support on the fantasies that his lawyer is feeding him....

 

[lioness]

When you are dealing with a narcissist, they don't see beyond the power the lawyer feeds them, they don't actually see the rulings as punishment. I hope in your case he pays child support. In my case it still took years and years before the state caught up with him and he had hidden every asset and there was/is nothing to catch him..don't hold your breath on actually receiving anything the court orders. I'm glad you are free. I hope the bs is a minimum for you because truly it never stops when you are dealing with an ego instead of a person. It's much better being out on the other side with a man like that. Stay strong girl!

He's a narcissist, psychopath and religious fanatic. And hes, he's totally hiding assets. However, he forgot that his nemesis is an attorney who used to be a bank regulator before law school, and she has account numbers. There are letters rogatory going out to several countries before I'm done, two of which will be interested in his history of tax evasion.

 

[lioness]

So happy to get this update, Lioness!!! You deserve a huge break and I hope this is the turning point that lets you soar, and the idiot SINK!

ROAR with the rest of the world now, you fierce lioness, you!!!

Thank you so much!!! Love the picture!!

I'm roaring like this lady: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BT2JPFpMrzM

 

[lioness]

Ha, your ex is a piece of shit and it's unfortunate he hasn't realized that about himself by now!

I've been following your story. I think you and your children will move on just fine from this. Too bad he's hanging on for dear life worrying about himself instead of his kids. What a tool.

Lioness, you've demonstrated great character throughout this mess, from what I've read. Great for you and great for your kids to see you stand up for yourself. Someday soon this will be all over and you can completely move forward with your awesome self and your children. And then you can smile into the wind and give a huge gesture of [censored] YOU to your ex. Please don't hesitate to share that moment with us!

Couldn't have said it better myself!

So happy for you Lioness. It gives me some faith in the world and our court system.

The court system here is not too fond of him. The wording describing his behavior toward the girls in one of the opinions was brutal. A normal person would be embarrassed, However, he thinks that's it's a secular legal system persecuting a righteous pious man, rather than protecting innocent little girls from a woman-hating delusional religious fanatic. He filed a motion asking for unsupervised visitation - again - right after he was blown out of the water on the same issue by the court two weeks ago. Does he like to be spanked by people that you address as "Your Honor"?? Because he was....

 

[Gypsy]

Where are you honey ?

 

[Andelain]

It's taking a toll on me but I'm a tough beeyatch. Bring it on. I can take it, gift-wrap it and send it back with a court order attached. However, he's hurting our children. My children. Pandora's box had nothing in it that could compare to a woman whose children feel that they're in danger and need to be be protected from an abuser.

I pity the foo..........

 

[distracts]

Lioness - I never know what to say on your posts because your ex is SO CRAZY like I can't even believe it except I've seen stuff like it levels of crazy. Gosh! I am so proud of the fight you're putting up - I know it must take a lot out of you. Take care of yourself and the kids.

 

[Enerchi]

So happy to get this update, Lioness!!! You deserve a huge break and I hope this is the turning point that lets you soar, and the idiot SINK!

ROAR with the rest of the world now, you fierce lioness, you!!!

Thank you so much!!! Love the picture!!

I'm roaring like this lady: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BT2JPFpMrzM

That lioness TOTALLY bitch slapped that lion!! YOU GO GIRL!!! lol!

 

[lioness]

Where are you honey ?

Mexico. Bar membership not required.

 

[lioness]

Lioness - I never know what to say on your posts because your ex is SO CRAZY like I can't even believe it except I've seen stuff like it levels of crazy. Gosh! I am so proud of the fight you're putting up - I know it must take a lot out of you. Take care of yourself and the kids.

Thank you! I don't know whether he hid the crazy or I was blind and stupid. Then again, that's what many of us abuse survivors say. How did I miss the red flags before I married him?

 

[lioness]

So happy to get this update, Lioness!!! You deserve a huge break and I hope this is the turning point that lets you soar, and the idiot SINK!

ROAR with the rest of the world now, you fierce lioness, you!!!

Thank you so much!!! Love the picture!!

I'm roaring like this lady: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BT2JPFpMrzM

That lioness TOTALLY bitch slapped that lion!! YOU GO GIRL!!! lol!

I wanna know what his punk friend the wing-lion said.

 

[Gypsy]

Where are you honey ?

Mexico. Bar membership not required.

Okay. I just burst into laughter at my desk.

You are telling me that this guy (and his clearly mentally deficient lawyer) filed court papers in MEXICO complaining about the fact that you and his kids are NOT WHITE to his standards, and are instead... Mexican??? Really???

I am in awe and reminded of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZBjelRDKHUk

If I'd been the judge I would have made him wear the sign for a year. And I would have made his lawyer get a tattoo of it on her forehead.

 

[lioness]

Where are you honey ?

Mexico. Bar membership not required.

Okay. I just burst into laughter at my desk.

You are telling me that this guy (and his clearly mentally deficient lawyer) filed court papers in MEXICO complaining about the fact that you and his kids are NOT WHITE to his standards, and are instead... Mexican??? Really???

I am in awe and reminded of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZBjelRDKHUk

If I'd been the judge I would have made him wear the sign for a year. And I would have made his lawyer get a tattoo of it on her forehead.

Yes. In Mexico. Surreal, huh?

Thank you for the video!!! I'm laughing so hard I'm coughing as I type. I can imagine the court clerks see his motions and want to go, "Here's your sign."