I've been reading this site for advice buying an engagement ring. I found this questionnaire and decided to fill it out to get help from the community. Appreciate any suggestions and tips, especially when it comes t settings which seem harder to judge objectively especially when it comes to buying online.
1. What is your budget?
Unlimited
2. How old are you guys?
Early 30s
3. What do she do for a living/working toward doing for a living.
Management consultant, travels most weeks
4. How does she dress? Does she dress up a lot, or is she a jeans and T-shirts girl? Grundge? Tailored Ann Taylor tastes?
Weekdays: conservative business clothes, working at home: yoga pants & hoodie, weekend out: second hand stores dresses, J-crew, Bcgb
5. Does she prefer white metals or yellow/pinks ones
Both, I like white she's fine with it
6. How is her house decorated? Does she love antique store trolling? Does she love everything Pottery Barn? Is she ultra modern with lots of metal and leather?
Simple/minimalist, vintage market stuff and restoration hardware
7. Is she clumsy? Is she very put together?
Both!
8. Does she love handbags and have a stable of them to choose from? Are they mostly practical (neutral colors: brown, black, beige) or are there a lot of colors in there? Blue, purple, red?
Professional, practical, computer/travel friendly, one at a time until they need replacing
9. What metro area are you in or near? Or are you in the country? Tell me where you live and what it's like there (if it's not obvious, like NYC).
Chicago
10. Do you guys have pets? Want them? What kind?
None but we both want dogs, cats and kids
11. Is she a brand name girl? Does she love things with brand names? If so why? Is it the dependability of brand name quality that appeals to her or is it the bragging rights? Or is she more understated and while she appreciates quality brand names don't do it for her?
She buys on price and quality, second hand / TJ Maxx, she goes for brands she knows to save time
12. Okay now, describe her to us in your own words? I've never met her, bring her to life me. What qualities does she have that you love? What is her sense of humor like? Just... tell us about her.
Laid back, smart, geeky, fun, quirky and kind
13. Has she expressed an interest in any particular style of ring (halo, Legacy, solitaire, three stone) or shape of stone (round, marquise, pear, princess, emerald, radiant.)?
No halos. After visiting the big stores the best we liked was Cartier 1895. I like larger she likes smaller - at first she preferred half-carat but I thought it was too small so she compromised and is ok as long as it's under 1ct. At first she really wanted an antique ring or stone but now she's more flexible.
14. What is her existing jewelry like? A lot of variety, or are there a few select pieces of similar design? What does she wear regularly?
She doesn't wear any except for a diamond RHR she wears to work. She has some gold heirloom pieces in the safe and has talked about getting some jade.
Cartier has its advantages. How would that compare to having a ring made from a PS jeweler and getting a diamond ike this 1.5 HCA.
http://www.jamesallen.com/diamonds/E-VS1-Excellent-Cut-Round-Diamond-1514544.asp
1. What is your budget?
Unlimited
2. How old are you guys?
Early 30s
3. What do she do for a living/working toward doing for a living.
Management consultant, travels most weeks
4. How does she dress? Does she dress up a lot, or is she a jeans and T-shirts girl? Grundge? Tailored Ann Taylor tastes?
Weekdays: conservative business clothes, working at home: yoga pants & hoodie, weekend out: second hand stores dresses, J-crew, Bcgb
5. Does she prefer white metals or yellow/pinks ones
Both, I like white she's fine with it
6. How is her house decorated? Does she love antique store trolling? Does she love everything Pottery Barn? Is she ultra modern with lots of metal and leather?
Simple/minimalist, vintage market stuff and restoration hardware
7. Is she clumsy? Is she very put together?
Both!
8. Does she love handbags and have a stable of them to choose from? Are they mostly practical (neutral colors: brown, black, beige) or are there a lot of colors in there? Blue, purple, red?
Professional, practical, computer/travel friendly, one at a time until they need replacing
9. What metro area are you in or near? Or are you in the country? Tell me where you live and what it's like there (if it's not obvious, like NYC).
Chicago
10. Do you guys have pets? Want them? What kind?
None but we both want dogs, cats and kids
11. Is she a brand name girl? Does she love things with brand names? If so why? Is it the dependability of brand name quality that appeals to her or is it the bragging rights? Or is she more understated and while she appreciates quality brand names don't do it for her?
She buys on price and quality, second hand / TJ Maxx, she goes for brands she knows to save time
12. Okay now, describe her to us in your own words? I've never met her, bring her to life me. What qualities does she have that you love? What is her sense of humor like? Just... tell us about her.
Laid back, smart, geeky, fun, quirky and kind
13. Has she expressed an interest in any particular style of ring (halo, Legacy, solitaire, three stone) or shape of stone (round, marquise, pear, princess, emerald, radiant.)?
No halos. After visiting the big stores the best we liked was Cartier 1895. I like larger she likes smaller - at first she preferred half-carat but I thought it was too small so she compromised and is ok as long as it's under 1ct. At first she really wanted an antique ring or stone but now she's more flexible.
14. What is her existing jewelry like? A lot of variety, or are there a few select pieces of similar design? What does she wear regularly?
She doesn't wear any except for a diamond RHR she wears to work. She has some gold heirloom pieces in the safe and has talked about getting some jade.
Cartier has its advantages. How would that compare to having a ring made from a PS jeweler and getting a diamond ike this 1.5 HCA.
http://www.jamesallen.com/diamonds/E-VS1-Excellent-Cut-Round-Diamond-1514544.asp