I have a pair of 2.05 total carat weight earrings picked out that have a 3 prong basket setting. The jeweler is willing to redo to martini...but I have also seen a girdle setting that looks like it would encompasses the best features of both. The girdle shows a shallower setting than the martini (more like a half-round) so it would nestle into your ear, but not as much as the martini might. My piercings were done by a friend and are long & thin so I try to avoid any unnecessary weight on my ears (no wires or heavy danglers) since they hang a little low. Any thoughts on which might be best before I make my final selection?