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Rough_Rock
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- Jun 15, 2014
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For as long as I remember I’ve wanted a nice pair of diamond studs substantial enough that that I can both wear them every day as well as to weddings and events. The kind you have for life and don’t need to upgrade. As I’ve been very inexperienced, I’ve always thought 2ctw was the size that fit that description for everyone and also thought my earlobes were on the smaller size. My jeweler did not have any pairs to try. I initially fell in love with a different shaped pair that were a little under 2ctw but when I tried them on they were shockingly small, so we started looking at 2ctw rounds and my jeweler said the size wouldn’t be much different. She showed me a loose 1.28 ct diamond in comparison to a 1ct diamond and we thought that would be a good size and would also fit the budget. I did not get to hold it up to my ear though. Now I’ve received those earrings and am not happy with them unfortunately, as it turns out my earlobes are larger than I anticipated. I feel like they look like a much smaller ctw on me (nothing wrong at all, it’s just It’s just not the look I was going for). I now feel that 3ctw would be the right size for me but don’t know how to approach this since these were a very kind gift from my husband. Should I just buy myself another pair and keep these in the safe as a back up pair? Should I approach my jeweler about trading them in?
I am also not very happy about the setting, as it’s a martini setting and a bit uncomfortable. Would a basket setting be better?
I really don’t want to sound ungrateful, I’m so grateful and that’s why I want to make sure everything is right with this purchase, as it’s a very big purchase and I don’t think it’s right to just be half pleased with it. I’m even open to returning them altogether tbh.
I am also not very happy about the setting, as it’s a martini setting and a bit uncomfortable. Would a basket setting be better?
I really don’t want to sound ungrateful, I’m so grateful and that’s why I want to make sure everything is right with this purchase, as it’s a very big purchase and I don’t think it’s right to just be half pleased with it. I’m even open to returning them altogether tbh.