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Absolutely. I always tell him before (or right after LOL) I purchase bling. Seriously though I do tell him out of respect because we share our finances so if I am making a significant purchase I let him know. We always check with each other first. We are a team and work together towards our goals. And his philosophy in life is a great one anyway that I know many PSers SOs share. "Happy Wife Happy Life"
All our accounts and CC's are joint, so there's no way to hide it. We don't buy things above a certain level without consulting the other, so the other evening, when I told him I wanted to upgrade my e-ring, he seemed to steel himself and said..."How much are you looking at spending?"
I told him, and he sort of gripped the sink a tad tighter, tried to make his face not look like this - - smiled stiffly, and said, "Sure!"
He's a stand up guy.
Absolutely. I always tell him before (or right after LOL) I purchase bling. Seriously though I do tell him out of respect because we share our finances so if I am making a significant purchase I let him know. We always check with each other first. We are a team and work together towards our goals. And his philosophy in life is a great one anyway that I know many PSers SOs share. "Happy Wife Happy Life"
...@Dancing Fire - does yours?
Sharon, you're my idol.HI:
Well, he bought my radiant ER so yes he knew. And yes to the Yachtmaster since he likes watches and tries them on.
As for ALL the rest? Nope. Not sure it is on his radar. My Father was a jeweller/owned his own business hence I have been buying and changing jewellery with my own (earned) money all my life. Given that, he doesn't question my judgement about what I buy because he knows I am informed and do my research.
cheers--Sharon