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Rough_Rock
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My old ER and Band was platinum. The place where we are getting the new stone and band strongly advising against platinum. Says it’s not as strong as gold? It’s not a cost thing since it’s literally the difference of a $100 or so. It was a security thing since when I brought the other rings in they said the stone was loose - it was a ring from Blue Nile and was our 4th setting and I didn’t notice that one as loose—- thenother 3 yes, and all platinum. I just always thought platinum was the strongest. I’m just not sure how to deal with the jeweler as they aren’t a fan (but definitely use it) but they say it won’t be delicate like I want (I just a plain solitaire band. Thin)There are white gold alloys that you can get without nickel but not everyone is willing to get them or to work with them.
For a diamond that big, I'd go platinum, because it would seem weird to me to want a white metal and not get the most expensive for a 4.6 ct diamond.
My old ER and Band was platinum. The place where we are getting the new stone and band strongly advising against platinum. Says it’s not as strong as gold? It’s not a cost thing since it’s literally the difference of a $100 or so. It was a security thing since when I brought the other rings in they said the stone was loose - it was a ring from Blue Nile and was our 4th setting and I didn’t notice that one as loose—- thenother 3 yes, and all platinum. I just always thought platinum was the strongest. I’m just not sure how to deal with the jeweler as they aren’t a fan (but definitely use it) but they say it won’t be delicate like I want (I just a plain solitaire band. Thin)![]()
Platinum is softer but white gold is more brittle. Platinum scratches more easily so over time will develop a soft patina, whereas white gold will remain shiny longer. With platinum, prongs are slightly more likely to loosen up over time (ie, bend a bit) and need to be re-tightened (you should ideally either take your ring in every six months to year to check, or learn how to check at home and then take it in if it needs to be tightened - with white gold too, which usually needs prong tightening less often but still needs it). But if you whack your hand hard enough to do damage you may just bend the prongs out of shape with a hit that might entirely break white gold prongs. So what your jeweler probably meant by "strong" is "less likely to scratch or bend" but in that case "strong" also translates as "more likely to break."
As well, you shouldn't wear white gold (or any gold) in highly chlorinated water like pools and especially hot tubs because the alloys can leech out, which will make the ring even more brittle. So if you'd like to wear your ring swimming (??? I guess people do this???) get platinum.
Also, yes, platinum is significantly heavier than white gold and I personally like to "feel" the ring on my finger. White gold feels comparatively insubstantial.
If you've been going through delicate settings for a fairly large stone, I would be remiss not to ask if you are bumping your hand on things a lot, sleeping in your ring, exercising in it, etc?
So funny story- my other ring I HATED because it was set high and was always in the way - I have 2 toddlers. And yaaa. It was a RB 3.5 carat with graduated side stones. It was always caught on sweaters etc. so it sat in the safe. Right now I just wear a plain platinum band and THAT never comes off. I probably wouldn’t wear it to the beach or pool or shower or gym or anything like that really. I just don’t want to lose the stone while walking around somewhere.
I requested a low profile setting so it doesn’t get in the way. I like finger coverage but not height. I have yet to see the ring- waiting for it to come.
That was all super helpful so I appreciate it!!!
I’ve had a few platinum mountings in the past and just didn’t care for the weight or the feel or the patina. Now I have white gold and love the luster, the color, and its lightweight. I was primarily drawn to it because I have hand issues and didn’t want the weight of plat anymore but I was surprised to find myself liking the other attributes I mentioned because I, too, thought plat was the way to go. The cost difference has been nominal for quite some time so I don’t think it’s about the most expensive or the best... it’s just preference.There are white gold alloys that you can get without nickel but not everyone is willing to get them or to work with them.
For a diamond that big, I'd go platinum, because it would seem weird to me to want a white metal and not get the most expensive for a 4.6 ct diamond.
oh my goodness poor youMy preference is 18ct white gold, rhodium plated annually. I don’t like the colour of Platinum, I find it too grey and flat. I do have a strong nickel allergy but have not had any problems with reactions. This is from the cheap eBay eternity ring I bought to try the style. Not 925 silver! That’s the result of overnight wear!
im.in NZ and the only problem ive had was years ago wearing cheap and cheerful fashion earings making my ears go greenI need confirmation, but I believe nickel is not used in Australian jewellery and the white gold is less white than nickel white gold. Also 9kt is more popular than 14kt in Australia
My preference is 18ct white gold, rhodium plated annually. I don’t like the colour of Platinum, I find it too grey and flat. I do have a strong nickel allergy but have not had any problems with reactions. This is from the cheap eBay eternity ring I bought to try the style. Not 925 silver! That’s the result of overnight wear!
I’ve had a few platinum mountings in the past and just didn’t care for the weight or the feel or the patina. Now I have white gold and love the luster, the color, and its lightweight. I was primarily drawn to it because I have hand issues and didn’t want the weight of plat anymore but I was surprised to find myself liking the other attributes I mentioned because I, too, thought plat was the way to go. The cost difference has been nominal for quite some time so I don’t think it’s about the most expensive or the best... it’s just preference.
YFWIW, I believe by law the UK bans nickel in their jewelry.
My son is also allergic to nickel but, as the other posters said, there are combos of white metals that don't have nickel... you just have to find a jeweler that can provide this.Right I see this- the jeweler thought I hated my other rings perhaps cuz they were too heavy. And maybe that’s right. Too. Idk. but it appears I’m allergic to nickel probably. So I need to find something else.
I happy to love YG on me and tbink it looks best- I have olive skin- but I remember hated YG ho until the past few years so can’t tell if it’s just trendy or if I will like it later.
There are white gold alloys that you can get without nickel but not everyone is willing to get them or to work with them.
For a diamond that big, I'd go platinum, because it would seem weird to me to want a white metal and not get the most expensive for a 4.6 ct diamond.
But is YG too soft??Plat is too soft IMO for that large a stone.
But is YG too soft??