I'm with these ladies, I like the little gap, it's more visually appealing to my eyes, plus I'm guessing you need the spacer to keep your rings safe from one another.
Do you not like the gap?
If you are unsure, have you considered a more narrow spacer. I have a 1mm that is subtle, while still making a little gap.
This one is actually only 1 mm, but my bands are only each 2.2 mm. I’m wondering if rose gold might blend with my skin better though in a 1 mm.
I like the spacer but think rose gold AND a slightly higher rise/height (but keeping the 1mm width) would look great. I feel the like 'dip' between your two rings needs to be lessened a bit.