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I've been reading Sears' book off and on for the past few months, as well as others. I found myself thinking he was kind of a self-absorbed pompous ass during the chapter on returning to work and the way he talks about Martha. Some of it is interesting, most of it I take with a grain of salt because it wasn't written by a woman with first hand parenting experience. Same with my doctor, who is male...he is there for my need for a health professional and prescriber of things, not the last word on pregnancy, birthing, and parenting. He knows his stuff from his medical education and his 34 years of experience, but he has not himself experienced pregnancy or birth so when it comes down to it I listen to my own instincts.