mrs jam|1337099943|3195702 said:I have to say I would be EXTREMELY traumatized if I had memory of my mother breast-feeding me. Ick. My earliest memories of childhood go back to about when I was 3-4 years of age, so thank God I wasn't breast-fed as a toddler.
For those posters who doubt that the boy on the cover will be teased, spend some time in a middle school. I'm a reading specialist for grades 6-8, and kids this age are relentless and unmerciful with one another.
mrs jam|1337099943|3195702 said:I have to say I would be EXTREMELY traumatized if I had memory of my mother breast-feeding me. Ick. My earliest memories of childhood go back to about when I was 3-4 years of age, so thank God I wasn't breast-fed as a toddler.
For those posters who doubt that the boy on the cover will be teased, spend some time in a middle school. I'm a reading specialist for grades 6-8, and kids this age are relentless and unmerciful with one another.
HollyS|1337105593|3195808 said:I don't understand anyone here who thinks this mother should have done this, no problem. C'mon.
I don't believe anyone here would want to have a memory of doing this with mommy at age 3-5. Certainly teenagers would consider that the grossest thing ever - - just ask one.
Formula and breast milk is for infants. Babies. If a child can chew solid food and drink from a cup, there is no reason for nursing or bottles.
Weaning can be hard, just like potty training. But you don't let a kid sh*t diapers at 3 or older unless you've lost your mind.
HollyS|1337105593|3195808 said:I don't understand anyone here who thinks this mother should have done this, no problem. C'mon.
I don't believe anyone here would want to have a memory of doing this with mommy at age 3-5. Certainly teenagers would consider that the grossest thing ever - - just ask one.
Formula and breast milk is for infants. Babies. If a child can chew solid food and drink from a cup, there is no reason for nursing or bottles.
Weaning can be hard, just like potty training. But you don't let a kid sh*t diapers at 3 or older unless you've lost your mind.
TravelingGal|1337107163|3195835 said:HollyS|1337105593|3195808 said:I don't understand anyone here who thinks this mother should have done this, no problem. C'mon.
I don't believe anyone here would want to have a memory of doing this with mommy at age 3-5. Certainly teenagers would consider that the grossest thing ever - - just ask one.
Formula and breast milk is for infants. Babies. If a child can chew solid food and drink from a cup, there is no reason for nursing or bottles.
Weaning can be hard, just like potty training. But you don't let a kid sh*t diapers at 3 or older unless you've lost your mind.
Could only be spoken by someone who doesn't have kids.
Holly, I don't attachment parent, but I know that there are many babies who can chew solid food and drink from a cup pretty early on. I think there are plenty of good reasons if you subscribe to attachment parenting to nurse beyond that (I'm not talking about WAY beyond, btw). Many people in THIS country would agree that nursing to age 2 is fine, and that's way beyond solid foods and cups.
As far as diapers go...well, I also know plenty of people who don't potty train their kids until after three, with 3.5 years being more and more common these days especially when it comes to boys. As for reasons why people train late? Well because believe it or not, sometimes kids DO have a mind of their own and will refuse to poop on the potty. I believe you can "control" and train many things when it comes to kids, but it's pretty darn tough to force a kid to poop on the potty unless they are good and ready.
My kid is 4 and has been trained since she was 2.5 years old...and I'll tell you this: I MISS diapers. It was so much easier! I'd be happy to lose my mind and keep the kid in diapers until she's 10!!!!
HollyS|1337105593|3195808 said:I don't understand anyone here who thinks this mother should have done this, no problem. C'mon.
I don't believe anyone here would want to have a memory of doing this with mommy at age 3-5. Certainly teenagers would consider that the grossest thing ever - - just ask one.
Formula and breast milk is for infants. Babies. If a child can chew solid food and drink from a cup, there is no reason for nursing or bottles.
Weaning can be hard, just like potty training. But you don't let a kid sh*t diapers at 3 or older unless you've lost your mind.
kennedy|1337112922|3195929 said:HollyS|1337105593|3195808 said:I don't understand anyone here who thinks this mother should have done this, no problem. C'mon.
I don't believe anyone here would want to have a memory of doing this with mommy at age 3-5. Certainly teenagers would consider that the grossest thing ever - - just ask one.
Formula and breast milk is for infants. Babies. If a child can chew solid food and drink from a cup, there is no reason for nursing or bottles.
Weaning can be hard, just like potty training. But you don't let a kid sh*t diapers at 3 or older unless you've lost your mind.
Good grief, the arrogance on this thread is mind boggling. So, now a mother is insane if her child isn't fully potty trained by 3? And babies who can eat solid food and drink from a cup should be weaned? WHY? That would apply to many babies less than a year old! Are you saying that you know better than the AAP, WHO, and Health Canada (to name just a few)? Simply being around children is very, very different than raising them, so the fact that you helped out in a daycare does not make you a parenting expert. Moreover, children are people and vary significantly in when they reach certain developmental milestones. For one child, being weaned and/or potty trained at 2 might be fine whereas for another child it would be far too early. There is no one size fits all approach to parenting and anyone who tells you there is doesn't know much about kids or parenting.
HollyS|1337114249|3195946 said:kennedy|1337112922|3195929 said:HollyS|1337105593|3195808 said:I don't understand anyone here who thinks this mother should have done this, no problem. C'mon.
I don't believe anyone here would want to have a memory of doing this with mommy at age 3-5. Certainly teenagers would consider that the grossest thing ever - - just ask one.
Formula and breast milk is for infants. Babies. If a child can chew solid food and drink from a cup, there is no reason for nursing or bottles.
Weaning can be hard, just like potty training. But you don't let a kid sh*t diapers at 3 or older unless you've lost your mind.
Good grief, the arrogance on this thread is mind boggling. So, now a mother is insane if her child isn't fully potty trained by 3? And babies who can eat solid food and drink from a cup should be weaned? WHY? That would apply to many babies less than a year old! Are you saying that you know better than the AAP, WHO, and Health Canada (to name just a few)? Simply being around children is very, very different than raising them, so the fact that you helped out in a daycare does not make you a parenting expert. Moreover, children are people and vary significantly in when they reach certain developmental milestones. For one child, being weaned and/or potty trained at 2 might be fine whereas for another child it would be far too early. There is no one size fits all approach to parenting and anyone who tells you there is doesn't know much about kids or parenting.
Children have been reared for centuries without world health organizations telling parents what they should do. BTW, most of your "experts" aren't raising their own kids; they're too busy raising yours. And, no, having squeezed one or more out of your body doesn't make you anything other than a mom. It doesn't automatically confer expert status on you, either.
Whatever. I guess you'll just have to be offended at my take on this subject.
kennedy|1337115058|3195960 said:HollyS|1337114249|3195946 said:kennedy|1337112922|3195929 said:HollyS|1337105593|3195808 said:I don't understand anyone here who thinks this mother should have done this, no problem. C'mon.
I don't believe anyone here would want to have a memory of doing this with mommy at age 3-5. Certainly teenagers would consider that the grossest thing ever - - just ask one.
Formula and breast milk is for infants. Babies. If a child can chew solid food and drink from a cup, there is no reason for nursing or bottles.
Weaning can be hard, just like potty training. But you don't let a kid sh*t diapers at 3 or older unless you've lost your mind.
Good grief, the arrogance on this thread is mind boggling. So, now a mother is insane if her child isn't fully potty trained by 3? And babies who can eat solid food and drink from a cup should be weaned? WHY? That would apply to many babies less than a year old! Are you saying that you know better than the AAP, WHO, and Health Canada (to name just a few)? Simply being around children is very, very different than raising them, so the fact that you helped out in a daycare does not make you a parenting expert. Moreover, children are people and vary significantly in when they reach certain developmental milestones. For one child, being weaned and/or potty trained at 2 might be fine whereas for another child it would be far too early. There is no one size fits all approach to parenting and anyone who tells you there is doesn't know much about kids or parenting.
Children have been reared for centuries without world health organizations telling parents what they should do. BTW, most of your "experts" aren't raising their own kids; they're too busy raising yours. And, no, having squeezed one or more out of your body doesn't make you anything other than a mom. It doesn't automatically confer expert status on you, either.
Whatever. I guess you'll just have to be offended at my take on this subject.
I never said I was an expert (although I actually sort of am by profession, but that's besides the point). But, yes, I'm also a mom and I'm actually quite proud that I squeezed a couple of babies out of my body, thank you very much. I'm not so much offended by your take on the subject as I am your attitude that your take should be everyone's take and that your way is the right way.
You seem both dismissive of my status as a mother and dismissive of health organizations. If you don't value peer reviewed scientific research and you don't value the experience of mothers, who's left?
Loves Vintage|1337115362|3195962 said:kennedy|1337115058|3195960 said:HollyS|1337114249|3195946 said:kennedy|1337112922|3195929 said:HollyS|1337105593|3195808 said:I don't understand anyone here who thinks this mother should have done this, no problem. C'mon.
I don't believe anyone here would want to have a memory of doing this with mommy at age 3-5. Certainly teenagers would consider that the grossest thing ever - - just ask one.
Formula and breast milk is for infants. Babies. If a child can chew solid food and drink from a cup, there is no reason for nursing or bottles.
Weaning can be hard, just like potty training. But you don't let a kid sh*t diapers at 3 or older unless you've lost your mind.
Good grief, the arrogance on this thread is mind boggling. So, now a mother is insane if her child isn't fully potty trained by 3? And babies who can eat solid food and drink from a cup should be weaned? WHY? That would apply to many babies less than a year old! Are you saying that you know better than the AAP, WHO, and Health Canada (to name just a few)? Simply being around children is very, very different than raising them, so the fact that you helped out in a daycare does not make you a parenting expert. Moreover, children are people and vary significantly in when they reach certain developmental milestones. For one child, being weaned and/or potty trained at 2 might be fine whereas for another child it would be far too early. There is no one size fits all approach to parenting and anyone who tells you there is doesn't know much about kids or parenting.
Children have been reared for centuries without world health organizations telling parents what they should do. BTW, most of your "experts" aren't raising their own kids; they're too busy raising yours. And, no, having squeezed one or more out of your body doesn't make you anything other than a mom. It doesn't automatically confer expert status on you, either.
Whatever. I guess you'll just have to be offended at my take on this subject.
I never said I was an expert (although I actually sort of am by profession, but that's besides the point). But, yes, I'm also a mom and I'm actually quite proud that I squeezed a couple of babies out of my body, thank you very much. I'm not so much offended by your take on the subject as I am your attitude that your take should be everyone's take and that your way is the right way.
You seem both dismissive of my status as a mother and dismissive of health organizations. If you don't value peer reviewed scientific research and you don't value the experience of mothers, who's left?
Kennedy - What is your profession? Just curious, since you mentioned something about it (but didn't say specifically) with respect to attachment parenting a page or so ago.
I have it on my desk at work. Usually I don't have magazines on my desk, but I decided I didn't want our clients oogling her goodies right next to me (homeless and recent felons make up a significant portion of our clients). If no one has posted about what it says by tomorrow, I'll let you know once I read it!Skippy|1337119525|3196043 said:Just out of curiosity has anyone read the article? what did it say? I probably won't go out and buy the magazine but now I am curious what it actually said, or if it was pretty tame and the picture is just kind of like the Demi Moore pic where it is try to grab attention.
Packrat, yes there names are mentioned http://ferndale.patch.com/articles/ferndale-mom-responds-to-time-magazine-cover-conversationpackrat|1337122488|3196083 said:I don't work w/kids by profession. I have two kids and I used to BE a kid. I was a sensitive child. Now a sensitive adult. But yanno..even the most sensitive Pollyanna's such as myself found things to tease other kids about. Not when I was three. Not even five or six really..when I hit middle school into Jr High, them's the teasing years. And no, the kids peers aren't going to remember this. They're three-how many people remember being three? And..I'm pretty sure they're not regular subscribers to TIME at age three or the target readers of this particular article, or that the parents sat them down to discuss it w/them, so why would they remember? But someone, somewhere, who is older, WILL remember, and post it on mom's facebook page or heck, the kid's facebook page or whatever they have in 10 years. Things like this have a way of finding their way back "home" again. Are their names mentioned at all? Their faces were shown, and one thing about the wonders of the internet--people can make connections, recognize a now grown up face, recognize a name, whatever, and something will *click* and suddenly "Dude it's yer mom's BOOOOOB! OMG dude it's in yer MOUTH!! bwhahahahahaha" point and laugh at him.
I know this b/c I have a brother and I can guarantee that if we traveled back in time to age 10 or so, and he found out one of his friends was the kid in the picture, that's exactly what he'd say/do.
Skippy|1337119525|3196043 said:Just out of curiosity has anyone read the article? what did it say? I probably won't go out and buy the magazine but now I am curious what it actually said, or if it was pretty tame and the picture is just kind of like the Demi Moore pic where it is try to grab attention.
movie zombie|1337134462|3196250 said:all i know is no one did this kid a favor: can you imagine him running for political office and someone posting this picture?!
Laila619|1337140452|3196323 said:movie zombie|1337134462|3196250 said:all i know is no one did this kid a favor: can you imagine him running for political office and someone posting this picture?!
It's so scandalous seeing a toddler nurse. Way more scandalous than what other politicians have been photographed doing in the past.
This thread is getting odd to me. No one bats an eye at seeing Kim Kardashian's boobs nearly completely hanging out of a low-cut dress, but people are horrified seeing a toddler breastfeed.