magna2
Shiny_Rock
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- Sep 22, 2003
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ss1934,
I am in the camp that would recommend that you walk away from this regardless how geat a bargain the total package might be. With all that has gone on between you and the jeweler (be it real or perceived), if you do buy it, the diamond will always remind you of this negative experience. You will never take pleasure of or appreciate the ring the way you should with such a purchase. And every time that you see the ring on your wife's finger, you'll get a feeling of disgust.
You may not get another bargain like this on a diamond but none the less you'll find another stone that will still be a bargain and one that you'll be happy with.
On the other hand, if you do decide to buy the ring, just keep telling yourself what a great bargain it is despite the jerk jeweler. Repeat it enough and you'll start believing that line so over time you'll disassociate this negative experience with the ring.
If you are still confounded about buying this ring after reading all these posts, just take out a quarter and flip it -- Heads - you buy; Tails - you walk.
I am in the camp that would recommend that you walk away from this regardless how geat a bargain the total package might be. With all that has gone on between you and the jeweler (be it real or perceived), if you do buy it, the diamond will always remind you of this negative experience. You will never take pleasure of or appreciate the ring the way you should with such a purchase. And every time that you see the ring on your wife's finger, you'll get a feeling of disgust.
You may not get another bargain like this on a diamond but none the less you'll find another stone that will still be a bargain and one that you'll be happy with.
On the other hand, if you do decide to buy the ring, just keep telling yourself what a great bargain it is despite the jerk jeweler. Repeat it enough and you'll start believing that line so over time you'll disassociate this negative experience with the ring.
If you are still confounded about buying this ring after reading all these posts, just take out a quarter and flip it -- Heads - you buy; Tails - you walk.
