Just wanted to share this ring with you, which has been in my family for almost 60 years. I thought you might like to see it. I wish I could capture on camera how sparkly the diamonds are!
I can tell you a little more about its history. It was bought by a man in the Forces and the couple were very young and in love, just 20 and 23. They were looking in the jeweler's window and the woman saw it and thought how lovely it was, but she said nothing because it was too expensive. Then the man said, Oh look at that ring, it's lovely, let's try that one on!" And it cost him six months' salary. They were starting out, planned a family and had no money from their parents. I wonder what Suze Orman would have made of that spend! The woman felt like a princess when she wore it, having a ring of such quality at such a young age, and having no possession that could compare. So perhaps it was money well spent. But anyway, they were married for 49 years, together for 54, and recently said goodbye when she died. The ring was worn daily all that time. I don't wear it because it makes me sad. It's so closely associated with the owner, whose eyes were the same shade as the stone. But I only inherited it three months ago so maybe my feelings will change in time.
Anyway, back to the ring! I did wonder if they were old-cut diamonds, because of the ring's age, but I don't know because I'm not an expert. I know nothing about old cuts.
Wear it joyfully, I am sure your relative would be happy the next generation loves it as much as she did. Such a beautiful history for a treasured heirloom.
The husband of the owner has said he wants it worn for special occasions only, not for every day. The owner wore it every day for 54 years, though! The zircon actually is rather scuffed around the edge of the table, but it doesn't show too badly at all.
It's a beautiful ring, I hope that one day you can wear it and it brings good memories not sad ones, jewellery like this piece that was loved and cherished by it's former owner is meant to be both worn and adored.