FightGravity
Shiny_Rock
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diamondseeker2006|1468081988|4053592 said:Help me understand one thing. If my husband tried to do that, I'd just get out of bed if he didn't stop. So are you saying he was either threatening her with harm or physically restraining her to force her to have sex? Because that is rape. Staying in bed and giving in to having sex when you really don't want to is not. The first is abuse and she should leave immediately if that is the case.
I don't think he was directly threatening her with harm. However, imagine yourself in the following situation (apologies in advance for graphic description):
Your partner tries to initiate anal sex. You say, "I don't like that" and move away.
He comes toward you and does it again, you say, "I don't like that" and move away.
He pushes inside you, and you freeze and don't stop him.
Do you feel raped? I would.
If someone said, "I don't like that" to me, I WOULD STOP.