Lauren8211
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I know this is kind of a personal topic, but with so many people on this message board, I imagine someone else has been through this also.
If you''ve been through some sort of childhood trauma (sexual or otherwise), how has this affected your adult relationships? What have you done to help the situation?
I feel like sometimes it really affects my current relationship. It causes me to shut down a lot and close FF (and most others) out. It affects self-esteem, and it really causes me to seek to FF for validation. This is something he should not be responsible for. He''s very understanding, and knows my story, but I love him enough to NOT want to make this a burden on him. I''ve been to therapy, and it hasnt seemed to help. Maybe I''m shutting down there too?
I don''t know. I''ve come a LONG way since I started dealing with this, but sometimes I think I''ve gotten to the point where I don''t know if I can change anymore. I''m scared that certain aspects of my personality are just beyond my control now.
Just wondering if anyone else has been through something like this, or something similar.
If you''ve been through some sort of childhood trauma (sexual or otherwise), how has this affected your adult relationships? What have you done to help the situation?
I feel like sometimes it really affects my current relationship. It causes me to shut down a lot and close FF (and most others) out. It affects self-esteem, and it really causes me to seek to FF for validation. This is something he should not be responsible for. He''s very understanding, and knows my story, but I love him enough to NOT want to make this a burden on him. I''ve been to therapy, and it hasnt seemed to help. Maybe I''m shutting down there too?
I don''t know. I''ve come a LONG way since I started dealing with this, but sometimes I think I''ve gotten to the point where I don''t know if I can change anymore. I''m scared that certain aspects of my personality are just beyond my control now.
Just wondering if anyone else has been through something like this, or something similar.