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Re: Bride sends wedding guest bill for $75 to cover cost of
Watching the video interviews of Jessica Baker put my teeth on edge. I obviously don't know what the back story between her and the couple might be (the bride is apparently her cousin), but Jessica seems to be deriving way too much pleasure out of shaming them -- while seemingly blithely ignoring her failure to alert, e.g., the venue that she and her husband were going to be no-shows, coupled with the fact that she did not later reach out to the couple to apologize, explain the reason they were not there. In fact, she seems to lay the initial onus on the couple because they had asked that children not attend the wedding. And says, with a chuckle and a smile, that she and her husband laughed when they got the bill for the two plated dinners and the accompanying note.
Some additional context: the groom told WOOC, a local radio station that tracked him down, that
"it was never about money; it was about his bride being hurt when several of her relatives didn’t show up and then didn’t follow up with an explanation.
He said it had been difficult before the wedding to get these same relatives to RSVP, but when they finally did, at the [caterer's] deadline, the couple paid for their meals and expected them to [be there]. He said they actually sent invoices to three relatives, but they now realize it was a 'tacky' thing to do, and they don’t expect to be reimbursed."
Watching the video interviews of Jessica Baker put my teeth on edge. I obviously don't know what the back story between her and the couple might be (the bride is apparently her cousin), but Jessica seems to be deriving way too much pleasure out of shaming them -- while seemingly blithely ignoring her failure to alert, e.g., the venue that she and her husband were going to be no-shows, coupled with the fact that she did not later reach out to the couple to apologize, explain the reason they were not there. In fact, she seems to lay the initial onus on the couple because they had asked that children not attend the wedding. And says, with a chuckle and a smile, that she and her husband laughed when they got the bill for the two plated dinners and the accompanying note.
Some additional context: the groom told WOOC, a local radio station that tracked him down, that
"it was never about money; it was about his bride being hurt when several of her relatives didn’t show up and then didn’t follow up with an explanation.
He said it had been difficult before the wedding to get these same relatives to RSVP, but when they finally did, at the [caterer's] deadline, the couple paid for their meals and expected them to [be there]. He said they actually sent invoices to three relatives, but they now realize it was a 'tacky' thing to do, and they don’t expect to be reimbursed."