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Rough_Rock
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Hello everyone
I've been on a mission to select a ring without my partner's input (challenging, but she will love the surprise element). So I've been reading a lot here and appreciate all the advice I've picked up.
Today I made a choice that was contrary to some of the advice I've read - hence the post now for second opinions.
2 shortlisted rings were both 0.72 Carat, a round solitaire (cut/polish/symmetry all Excellent for both). Both close enough in price for price not to be a factor and I'm completely settled on the carat size being what she will want. To the other factors:
Ring 1 was D - VS1 - Faint Florescence
Ring 2 was F - IF - No Florescence
Finding it impossible to decide, I eventually put a deposit down on Ring 2, with the following logic:
> Viewing the GIA report for the F - IF diamond I really liked the 'mind clean' fact that it listed no inclusions at all. Maybe an ego thing, but nice nonetheless. I know both would be eye clean, of course.
> No fluorescence on the F also seemed to be a bonus, but I'm unsure if that's a valid opinion whatsoever but it made the report look really neat
> Also had in my mind that while most here prioritise colour, there are some that see colour coding as only that, and find D too icey. I had that front of mind but sadly don't know my partner's preference in this regard.
Actually, comparing both stones side by side very carefully on the counter I actually pick D being the whiter diamond, but moving toward the window/daylight I got them mixed up several times.... So in realising this that I finally made the impossible decision and chose the Ring 2 and paid deposit . To be honest though, I was still totally confused.
Afterwards, I realised that I'd gone off script from most things I'd read here ("prioritise colour"), so I thought I better report back and see if my logic today had any merit whatsoever!
PS. I'm sure if I had picked Ring 1 I'd be posting here, second guessing myself and asking if I should had gone for the other ! With so many variables and doing this alone it got a bit overwhelming.
Thankyou for being a great resource, and for any help here
I'm sure it's not too late to change if necessary, but I'm also sure they'll both be great.
I've been on a mission to select a ring without my partner's input (challenging, but she will love the surprise element). So I've been reading a lot here and appreciate all the advice I've picked up.
Today I made a choice that was contrary to some of the advice I've read - hence the post now for second opinions.
2 shortlisted rings were both 0.72 Carat, a round solitaire (cut/polish/symmetry all Excellent for both). Both close enough in price for price not to be a factor and I'm completely settled on the carat size being what she will want. To the other factors:
Ring 1 was D - VS1 - Faint Florescence
Ring 2 was F - IF - No Florescence
Finding it impossible to decide, I eventually put a deposit down on Ring 2, with the following logic:
> Viewing the GIA report for the F - IF diamond I really liked the 'mind clean' fact that it listed no inclusions at all. Maybe an ego thing, but nice nonetheless. I know both would be eye clean, of course.
> No fluorescence on the F also seemed to be a bonus, but I'm unsure if that's a valid opinion whatsoever but it made the report look really neat
> Also had in my mind that while most here prioritise colour, there are some that see colour coding as only that, and find D too icey. I had that front of mind but sadly don't know my partner's preference in this regard.
Actually, comparing both stones side by side very carefully on the counter I actually pick D being the whiter diamond, but moving toward the window/daylight I got them mixed up several times.... So in realising this that I finally made the impossible decision and chose the Ring 2 and paid deposit . To be honest though, I was still totally confused.
Afterwards, I realised that I'd gone off script from most things I'd read here ("prioritise colour"), so I thought I better report back and see if my logic today had any merit whatsoever!
PS. I'm sure if I had picked Ring 1 I'd be posting here, second guessing myself and asking if I should had gone for the other ! With so many variables and doing this alone it got a bit overwhelming.
Thankyou for being a great resource, and for any help here
I'm sure it's not too late to change if necessary, but I'm also sure they'll both be great.
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