dragonfly411
Ideal_Rock
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Let''s use a different example. If you were to come to me and say " I LOVE eggplant. Eggplant is the best food on earth" I could completely disagree with how you feel, and what you think about that, but still like you as a person, and completely respect you.
Another example. You could think a man is THE single most attractive man on earth... he is hands down the only person you''d want to be with. Would I have a lack of respect for you if I disagreed with your taste? If I thought the man was ugly?
Yet another example. You could consider PETA to be your life calling. You could say to me " I work for PETA.. it is my life.. it is who I am and what I do, and I feel that they are correct in their thought and belief". Do I magically have to agree with that to like you, and respect you as a person?
Same thing in my opinion. It is a thought, a feeling, a response evoked by a positive reaction hormonally or mentally or emotionally that has a large presence to you and is a major part of who you are and what you do (though maybe not the eggplant part). So I am wrong for disagreeing with those things? You don''t choose whether you are attracted to the man, but do I respect you less for liking the man when I don''t find him remotely interesting?
Another example. You could think a man is THE single most attractive man on earth... he is hands down the only person you''d want to be with. Would I have a lack of respect for you if I disagreed with your taste? If I thought the man was ugly?
Yet another example. You could consider PETA to be your life calling. You could say to me " I work for PETA.. it is my life.. it is who I am and what I do, and I feel that they are correct in their thought and belief". Do I magically have to agree with that to like you, and respect you as a person?
Same thing in my opinion. It is a thought, a feeling, a response evoked by a positive reaction hormonally or mentally or emotionally that has a large presence to you and is a major part of who you are and what you do (though maybe not the eggplant part). So I am wrong for disagreeing with those things? You don''t choose whether you are attracted to the man, but do I respect you less for liking the man when I don''t find him remotely interesting?