Smurfysmiles
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Date: 1/26/2010 10:59:51 PM
Author: decodelighted
Smurfy ...
Respectfully, why not take a look back at your recent threads & think about how *often* you post asking for support or sympathy or dust or prayers. There''s a limit to what people can give. Are you asking for more than your share?
Date: 1/27/2010 6:28:05 PM
Author: lucyandroger
That stinks. I hope you have lots of pics of them.
Date: 1/27/2010 7:34:20 PM
Author: JerseyGrl81
Oh no! I would be upset too! Are you going to keep the remains? LOL
That sounds like a great idea! You can put a picture of your bouquet in the frame.Date: 1/27/2010 7:37:20 PM
Author: Smurfyimproved
Date: 1/27/2010 7:34:20 PM
Author: JerseyGrl81
Oh no! I would be upset too! Are you going to keep the remains? LOL
No I''ll them crematedlol JK JK
I had a friend offer to take the crumblies and put them into a bookmark or make a photo frame or something out of them so I may do that but they have mostly turned to dustI guess the cats really didn''t want those flowers around!![]()
Amen.Date: 1/26/2010 10:41:39 PM
Author: iluvcarats
Smurfy - I love ya, but honestly, if that is the worst thing that happens to you, consider yourself lucky.
Turn on CNN....
Sorry that happened but![]()
This is not meant to be mean. Just a gentle reminder to count your blessings. We all forget to do that sometimes. Me included.![]()
We understand its something to be bummed out about, smurfy. No one is arguing that.Date: 1/28/2010 10:44:42 AM
Author: Smurfyimproved
I''m not saying it''s the worst possible thing that could happen; but it did happen and it made me sad. If you guys think I am being ridiculous, take a look at the pet peeve thread. Really does everyone need to be getting annoyed about these things when there are bigger things to be thinking about? Absolutely not. But we do. It''s part of the human condition. Just because there are major disasters and other terrible things happening does not mean my life IS perfect. It''s not. It''s far from it. I''m certainly allowed to feel sad about losing something sentimental. I''m over it now but at the time I wasn''t thinking ''Oh man this sucks but it could be worse''. I was thinking ''This SUCKS! I was going to show all these things to my daughters if I have any or look at these things when I am older to reminisce''.
Well, if it makes you feel any better I had zero time to buy my DD her first Christmas ornament so I ordered one last week and when she''s old enough, I''ll tell her that this was her first Christmas ornament. She doesn''t have to know that I bought it on January 21Date: 1/28/2010 10:44:42 AM
Author: Smurfyimproved
I''m not saying it''s the worst possible thing that could happen; but it did happen and it made me sad. If you guys think I am being ridiculous, take a look at the pet peeve thread. Really does everyone need to be getting annoyed about these things when there are bigger things to be thinking about? Absolutely not. But we do. It''s part of the human condition. Just because there are major disasters and other terrible things happening does not mean my life IS perfect. It''s not. It''s far from it. I''m certainly allowed to feel sad about losing something sentimental. I''m over it now but at the time I wasn''t thinking ''Oh man this sucks but it could be worse''. I was thinking ''This SUCKS! I was going to show all these things to my daughters if I have any or look at these things when I am older to reminisce''.
Date: 1/28/2010 10:44:42 AM
Author: Smurfyimproved
I''m not saying it''s the worst possible thing that could happen; but it did happen and it made me sad. If you guys think I am being ridiculous, take a look at the pet peeve thread. Really does everyone need to be getting annoyed about these things when there are bigger things to be thinking about? Absolutely not. But we do. It''s part of the human condition. Just because there are major disasters and other terrible things happening does not mean my life IS perfect. It''s not. It''s far from it. I''m certainly allowed to feel sad about losing something sentimental. I''m over it now but at the time I wasn''t thinking ''Oh man this sucks but it could be worse''. I was thinking ''This SUCKS! I was going to show all these things to my daughters if I have any or look at these things when I am older to reminisce''.
I waited until January to buy our first wedding ornament because I wanted to get it on sale. Lennox is expensive man!Date: 1/28/2010 11:10:08 AM
Author: fiery
Date: 1/28/2010 10:44:42 AM
Author: Smurfyimproved
I''m not saying it''s the worst possible thing that could happen; but it did happen and it made me sad. If you guys think I am being ridiculous, take a look at the pet peeve thread. Really does everyone need to be getting annoyed about these things when there are bigger things to be thinking about? Absolutely not. But we do. It''s part of the human condition. Just because there are major disasters and other terrible things happening does not mean my life IS perfect. It''s not. It''s far from it. I''m certainly allowed to feel sad about losing something sentimental. I''m over it now but at the time I wasn''t thinking ''Oh man this sucks but it could be worse''. I was thinking ''This SUCKS! I was going to show all these things to my daughters if I have any or look at these things when I am older to reminisce''.
Well, if it makes you feel any better I had zero time to buy my DD her first Christmas ornament so I ordered one last week and when she''s old enough, I''ll tell her that this was her first Christmas ornament. She doesn''t have to know that I bought it on January 21![]()
You''re right Trill, however like Deco said, she''s getting a reputation for that. If I were doing something consistently that was off-putting to the people around me, I''d want to know.Date: 1/28/2010 11:18:10 AM
Author: trillionaire
Smurfy,
something bothered you, and you posted about it. Anyone who is annoyed by that, or doesn''t want to hear about it can find other things to do. It''s less your problem than theirs, even if you complain on a serial basis. (sorry, don''t follow your threads like that, so I have no idea)
That said, sorry about your flowers, that sucks. I''ve had pets ruin things that were much less significant, and it certainly is a frustrating and helpless feeling.
Value is subjective.Date: 1/28/2010 11:22:30 AM
Author: noelwr
I like to read all your postings, be they happy, sad or asking for opinions. and I agree with trillionaire that if a person doesn''t have anything of value to add, they should just not reply.
Fair enough.Date: 1/28/2010 11:20:11 AM
Author: elledizzy5
You''re right Trill, however like Deco said, she''s getting a reputation for that. If I were doing something consistently that was off-putting to the people around me, I''d want to know.Date: 1/28/2010 11:18:10 AM
Author: trillionaire
Smurfy,
something bothered you, and you posted about it. Anyone who is annoyed by that, or doesn''t want to hear about it can find other things to do. It''s less your problem than theirs, even if you complain on a serial basis. (sorry, don''t follow your threads like that, so I have no idea)
That said, sorry about your flowers, that sucks. I''ve had pets ruin things that were much less significant, and it certainly is a frustrating and helpless feeling.
I''d hate for everyone to stop responding to her posts, and her not know why.
At least this way she understands the issue. I tried to present it as kindly as possible.