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Date: 1/9/2010 9:46:41 PM
Author: Smurfyimproved
The point, was if you had already saved up money for your honeymoon and had talked about when you would be going prior to the wedding date being announced- would you cancel your plans and go to the wedding instead? Also since the graduation of my first niece or nephew was coming up, would that over rule anything? I was just confused about how to pick...
I think this question is variable from family to family. I don''t have nieces and nephews, but I know my own aunts and uncles did not attend my HS graduation. One of my aunts attended my college graduation. Some families are a lot more tight-knit and would not imagine missing an event like this. For me, personally, if there was a plane trip involved, there''s no way I would be attending a HS graduation. I would send a card and a small gift if finances allowed.
As far as the wedding goes, it''s again a situation that is unique to your own family. I would never miss a sibling''s wedding unless there was a true emergency. But I live a 3 hour drive from my siblings, and we are all within 5 years of one another. I''m very close to my sister and although my brother and I are estranged, I hold out hope that will improve over time and I would make it a priority to attend her wedding. You and your sister may have a relationship where it''s realistic for you to not attend her wedding. But you can''t undo not attending that event, so I would be sure that you know how she and other family members will react if you choose to prioritize your honeymoon over her wedding.
Good luck in the job search and with this difficult situation.