Mara
Super_Ideal_Rock
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- Oct 30, 2002
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lol cdt... yes i agree in general. sometimes i read stuff that is so en vogue right now and i am like WHAT? REALLY? i feel like for almost anything you can find some article online that says that it's good or bad. our kid is moving into their room from day one...we have it so we'll use it and our house is tiny...the room is like 10 steps from ours. and as for soothing them to be with you, honestly i think the kid would be more disrupted sleeping in our room with my loudly snoring husband, and our dog. hahaha.
sorry i didn't mean to start the 'water debate'... i figured that it might not be done anymore but now i don't QUITE get the reasoning behind it (empty calories, water HAS none?) so it's just so confusing. and i do agree with anchor that you talk to 5 people, you can get 4 diff responses. i feel like today's parents almost have it harder than our parents and not just because of increased knowledge or safety rules but just SO much information out there it's hard to pick through and know what the heck you are doing. IMO social pressure in parenting is quite rampant and it just makes new moms confused and feeling like they are a bad parent if they deviate from the culturally accepted norm (whatever it may be) or their kid cries a lot or they don't feed right or this or that.
mp, we got small amts of cereal mixed in with formula starting at 3 months i think...and we loved it. i def need to catalogue all the stuff my mom and grandma did and then pick through it hehe.
tg...i agree re juice. i would rather give water than juice and teach the kid to learn to love water just as much as milk for the future when water will be their primary hydration method.
thanks for the congrats miracles. fiery, my mom is going to help us out a fair amt for a while so i know she and i will be clashing a bit, but that's part of the fun i guess.
i am just grateful to have her near.
sorry i didn't mean to start the 'water debate'... i figured that it might not be done anymore but now i don't QUITE get the reasoning behind it (empty calories, water HAS none?) so it's just so confusing. and i do agree with anchor that you talk to 5 people, you can get 4 diff responses. i feel like today's parents almost have it harder than our parents and not just because of increased knowledge or safety rules but just SO much information out there it's hard to pick through and know what the heck you are doing. IMO social pressure in parenting is quite rampant and it just makes new moms confused and feeling like they are a bad parent if they deviate from the culturally accepted norm (whatever it may be) or their kid cries a lot or they don't feed right or this or that.
mp, we got small amts of cereal mixed in with formula starting at 3 months i think...and we loved it. i def need to catalogue all the stuff my mom and grandma did and then pick through it hehe.
tg...i agree re juice. i would rather give water than juice and teach the kid to learn to love water just as much as milk for the future when water will be their primary hydration method.
thanks for the congrats miracles. fiery, my mom is going to help us out a fair amt for a while so i know she and i will be clashing a bit, but that's part of the fun i guess.