Disclaimer: I know the salary rule is a marketing promo created by DeBeers and should not be used as a guideline to set the price of an engagement ring. One should buy what one can afford.
Just for the sake of argument, what''s the current society''s take on the salary rule? I have searched the forum and most threads date back to 2-3 years ago, and most agree it''s 2 months. I had a ''discussion'' with my girlfriend last night who insisted the new rule is 3 months salary. I also want to know whether it is before or after tax? She even brought up 401k.
Most of our friends are around the same age, and the topic of marriage and engagement ring have came up often. I just want to get my facts straight next time I jump into another ''discussion''. I know this can differ by geographical region, living environment, and etc. But I would like to hear everyone''s input to get a feel of what the general public expects.
I have already bought my girlfriend the ring (she doesn''t know yet), and just bought the diamond I liked that seemed like a good value. I actually spent more than I initially planned, but I am glad I didn''t base my search mainly by price.
Just for the sake of argument, what''s the current society''s take on the salary rule? I have searched the forum and most threads date back to 2-3 years ago, and most agree it''s 2 months. I had a ''discussion'' with my girlfriend last night who insisted the new rule is 3 months salary. I also want to know whether it is before or after tax? She even brought up 401k.
Most of our friends are around the same age, and the topic of marriage and engagement ring have came up often. I just want to get my facts straight next time I jump into another ''discussion''. I know this can differ by geographical region, living environment, and etc. But I would like to hear everyone''s input to get a feel of what the general public expects.
I have already bought my girlfriend the ring (she doesn''t know yet), and just bought the diamond I liked that seemed like a good value. I actually spent more than I initially planned, but I am glad I didn''t base my search mainly by price.