Lynnie
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So I got inspired by all these recent $$ questions, and I realize I have one of my own.
The venue I booked includes valet parking and coat check (included in our per-person price). The place doesn''t have a parking lot, and when I asked where they parked the cars, they said that they use a nearby McDonald''s lot (with permission), and on the next two blocks down from the venue there''s a cemetery and they park the cars along the street next to it. This is all fine, in my book. I would not like my guests to feel they have to tip for the parking and coat check.
So my questions are:
Would you, as a guest, tip the valet and coat check person?
I would like to specify to the venue that I would not like guests to tip. Should I give the venue the tips beforehand? And what would be an appropriate amount? $5 a car? I''m thinking there''ll be about 60-ish cars. As for the coat-check, the wedding''s in April, and the weather here can be anywhere from beautiful to brutal, so I really won''t be able to gauge that aspect until that week or even that day. I''m assuming there''ll be one coat-check person, and probably 2 or 3 valets. I''ll have to find out. Suggestions for the coat-check person?
TIA
Oh, BTW, I think that as a guest I would feel impelled to tip these people. But if they said "The tip has been taken care of" I would think "How sweet of the hosts". But if I specify that I will take care of the tips, and find out that they accept tips anyway, I would be FURIOUS.... and there would probably be nothing I could do about it.
TIA again
The venue I booked includes valet parking and coat check (included in our per-person price). The place doesn''t have a parking lot, and when I asked where they parked the cars, they said that they use a nearby McDonald''s lot (with permission), and on the next two blocks down from the venue there''s a cemetery and they park the cars along the street next to it. This is all fine, in my book. I would not like my guests to feel they have to tip for the parking and coat check.
So my questions are:
Would you, as a guest, tip the valet and coat check person?
I would like to specify to the venue that I would not like guests to tip. Should I give the venue the tips beforehand? And what would be an appropriate amount? $5 a car? I''m thinking there''ll be about 60-ish cars. As for the coat-check, the wedding''s in April, and the weather here can be anywhere from beautiful to brutal, so I really won''t be able to gauge that aspect until that week or even that day. I''m assuming there''ll be one coat-check person, and probably 2 or 3 valets. I''ll have to find out. Suggestions for the coat-check person?
TIA
Oh, BTW, I think that as a guest I would feel impelled to tip these people. But if they said "The tip has been taken care of" I would think "How sweet of the hosts". But if I specify that I will take care of the tips, and find out that they accept tips anyway, I would be FURIOUS.... and there would probably be nothing I could do about it.
TIA again