This forum is 6+ years old, pretty much everything we bring up has been discussed beforeDate: 1/12/2008 10:19:56 PM
Author:zilaras
Since I am new here...this might have been discussed before.
Exactly my fear! And on top of that, my BF is surprisingly traditional in his views around a proposal and marriage. I think he would be forever disappointed that he didn''t get the chance to make a huge romantic gesture for me.Date: 1/13/2008 4:40:31 PM
Author: designchica
I would not propose because even if he said yes, I''d always wonder if deep down it was something he truly wanted and was excited about.
Date: 1/12/2008 10:19:56 PM
Author:zilaras
Since I am new here...this might have been discussed before.
However, I was curious if any of you would consider proposing to your SO instead of waiting for him.
Sandia_rose my SO feels the same way and I too never though of it as demeaning or sexist. I once asked him what he would say if I proposed to him and he responded much the same way. According to his thought process, the proposal is his one time to really shine and bowl me over with his ideas and his very special way of showing me how much he wants me to be his wife. After a bit of thought I realized how disappointed I would be if he ever took something so meaningful away from me. So, I wait patientlyDate: 1/14/2008 10:57:02 AM
Author: sandia_rose
"...A proposal is something that is important to a man, and it''s wrong to take that away from him. It''s almost --- what''s the word? -----emasculating.''