PinkPrincess17
Rough_Rock
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- Mar 14, 2022
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Sadly you may already be clouded by the idea of the stone not being ideal which is a shame as you may be pleasantly surprised when you see it in real life. 1.3ct is going to be more forgiving than a larger stone that isn't number perfect.
I'd let your lovely boyfriend just go ahead with his plans. If when you receive the ring it is VERY obvious to you that it's under performing in all lighting condistions, then have a quiet word with him and ask if you can pick a new stone together.
Thank you for this. I have been going crazy researching this diamond and seeing all the information that leads me to think this won't be a great diamond and am getting very discouraged before he has even proposed.
@PinkPrincess17 As you can see, we're not big fans of Brilliant Earth but pleeeeese don't be disheartened. Your stone may not be technically Miss World, but give it a chance. I say this because in your situation, it's more important for you to enjoy the moment. The ring may just dazzle you perfectly fine.
My engagement ring is a .3 carat (G VS1) sweetheart that I wasn't expecting so I fell in love immediately. I didn't feel the need to upgrade (I still don't!) but with a blessedly healthier financial situation, I'm satisfying my diamond needs myself 20+ years later.
In short, if you don't think your fiance-to-be will be at all offended, and is a pragmatic sort, then feel free to broach the idea of getting a better stone once you see the ring and are 100% sure that you can find a better stone. If however he's a sensitive soul, give the ring a chance and see how you feel.
Thank you for this!! I have been so stressed out after reading so many articles and seeing what different people consider to be ideal diamonds. I have been so anxious as to whether this diamond will sparkle and look good.
I know he got it set in this Simply Tacori setting: https://www.tacori.com/engagement-ring-simply-tacori-2679rd/ and hate to tell him that the diamond he decided on isn't ideal.
I love your Miss World comparison lol.
Thank you for this!! I have been so stressed out after reading so many articles and seeing what different people consider to be ideal diamonds. I have been so anxious as to whether this diamond will sparkle and look good.
I know he got it set in this Simply Tacori setting: https://www.tacori.com/engagement-ring-simply-tacori-2679rd/ and hate to tell him that the diamond he decided on isn't ideal.
I love your Miss World comparison lol.