yourdelight
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Oct 9, 2008
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- 29
Hi Pricescopers!
Need to have another vent....
I was just (kind of) getting used to my FF putting off the engagement until he gets his work situation sorted, then tonight he says he'd maybe like to have his own place before we get engaged. This means it will take even longer before he proposes/we can get wed. Not only does he have to sort his career out but THEN get somewhere to live.
We decided to live at home until we got married now it seems like he's making new ways to delay things... he wouldn't even be buying a place he'd be renting on his own, then we'd buy somewhere just before we got married. I don't understand :S
It just keeps upsetting me... he already has the ring and I at least thought he wanted to get engaged so why is he putting all these things in the way and going against everything we'd talked about together?? Every time we speak he makes out it's going to be pushed even further back.
I keep wondering if there will be another reason to delay things... I feel like we are taking a step backwards each day because it just seems SO uncertain.
This time 2 weeks ago I was planning (in my head) for a November 2009 wedding and now I don't even feel like we'll be engaged next year. My boyfriend thinks I'm stupid getting upset.. but I know people on here understand how I feel.
I have a job interview tomorrow and it's important as it's a big step up career wise and I just don't feel enthusiastic/confident because I feel down/confused about the engagement- it's crazy!
I'm too involved in the whole thing but once you're involved in the excitement it's so hard to detach yourself from it all. *Sigh*.
Any tips on how to just at least TRY and forget about it?? I don't want to end up damaging our relationship because of it.
Need to have another vent....
I was just (kind of) getting used to my FF putting off the engagement until he gets his work situation sorted, then tonight he says he'd maybe like to have his own place before we get engaged. This means it will take even longer before he proposes/we can get wed. Not only does he have to sort his career out but THEN get somewhere to live.
We decided to live at home until we got married now it seems like he's making new ways to delay things... he wouldn't even be buying a place he'd be renting on his own, then we'd buy somewhere just before we got married. I don't understand :S
It just keeps upsetting me... he already has the ring and I at least thought he wanted to get engaged so why is he putting all these things in the way and going against everything we'd talked about together?? Every time we speak he makes out it's going to be pushed even further back.
I keep wondering if there will be another reason to delay things... I feel like we are taking a step backwards each day because it just seems SO uncertain.
This time 2 weeks ago I was planning (in my head) for a November 2009 wedding and now I don't even feel like we'll be engaged next year. My boyfriend thinks I'm stupid getting upset.. but I know people on here understand how I feel.
I have a job interview tomorrow and it's important as it's a big step up career wise and I just don't feel enthusiastic/confident because I feel down/confused about the engagement- it's crazy!
I'm too involved in the whole thing but once you're involved in the excitement it's so hard to detach yourself from it all. *Sigh*.
Any tips on how to just at least TRY and forget about it?? I don't want to end up damaging our relationship because of it.