caribqueen
Brilliant_Rock
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We''re getting married early June, and we sent our invites at the 3-month out point (followed The Knot''s checklist) versus the 2-month out point. Also, our wedding is in the states and we have guests coming from at least 3 other countries in addition to the other side of the country.
I figured we needed a little room for those people who would be late responding. So we gave them an RSVP deadline of April 15th. Our guests had a little more than a month to decide if they would attend. Not to mention the save the dates that went out SEVERAL months earlier.
Yet it is April 14th and we have 67% of our RSVPs back. I realize that maybe we''ll receive a chunk by the end of this week, but still. As for the wedding, either you''re coming or you''re not. When you open a letter or a card or an invitation, why not just take care of it and then move onto other things. I realize that people have lives and are busy, but it''s almost like they''re not respecting the process. Some of our guests could be concentrating on their taxes and working hard to get all of that in order, so I realize that. But again, why did you wait until now? Oh, and I should mention, I come from a family who are prone to say things like "oh they already know I''m coming."
In the end, I''m glad we stuck with our timeline because it gives us until the end of this month to nail things down, so that we’re hopefully not scrambling just a few weeks before the wedding.
Can anyone relate?